Becky0789 Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 Me and my ex where together for a year.. Very close, in love, crazy about each other. Im 19 and hes 20. We had a very rough time over the past couple of months after loosing a baby and it affected him VERY badly, he was more excitied about the baby than i was,and split about 5 weeks a go. After he split up with me i constantly text him and nothing , so i decided just to move on and leave him to it. 3 weeks after i stopped contacting him he randomly text me, he put 'where u serious about wanting to be with me and to have a family? "/', and we got talking for days, he told me that he still loves me and thinks about me everyday and us having a family and said he does actually really miss me and said that his head was just a bit messed up and when i asked him if he loved his new girlfriend he said.. ' how can i if a part of me still belongs with you'. however he has a new gf :/, he said he was going to tell her, then he went strange, i kept texting him over and over because he just started egnoring me for no really apprent reason.. He said that he didnt mean for this to happen and we will never work.. Im heartbroken, now hes just playing happy with his gf, i no full well he wouldnt of just said all that to me for the sake of it otherwise he wouldnt of even be bothered, and certainly woulndt of bothered contacting me after 4 weeks.. I really miss him.. I cant believe he would do this again "/. I got really annoyed that he went back to egnoring me so i said things maybe i shouldnt of :/. Earlier i sent him a message on a social networking website that allows you to view who views your profile.. and he read the email looked at my profile page and didnt answer me... Does he miss me? i dont understand ... What should i do? I no deep down he cares.. i hate it, i love him so much
Leandro Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 The only thing you can do is to go NC. NC will help you move on and heal. I know how you feel, my ex left me and a month later started dating someone else when she told me she wasn't going to date for a couple of months. It sucks but we can't do anything about it. Don't worry if he misses you or not, that won't bring him back. Go NC and start to focus on yourself and forget about him. You deserve better!
Confused9 Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 He doesn't miss you. He is keeping you on the back burner. Sorry to sound harsh but if he missed you as much as you need him too, he would be with you. Cheaters are Ahole's. Move on, seriously. Stop pining away for him and waiting for him, because even if he did come back, look at what he's capable of. Do yourself a favor and run away from this guy as fast as you can. I know your pain, I was there 3 years ago. We were together for 7 years and my ex was acting this way. We were getting married. He ended up leaving me, marrying her within 7 months and they had a baby. Don't waste anymore time on this good for nothing @sshole. Seriously, you are young, just chalk this up to a lose and run fast away from him. I agree with the other poster NC is the only thing you can do. Stop looking at his pages, stop calling, stop everything to do with him. Save yourself from this piece of shat... Hang in there, it gets easier. You will be okay, I promise!
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