I Broke NC after 5 months, got a response, what now?

[wjg23g]

Hey LS,

 

I broke NC mid-day last friday after 5 months NC with the following email (I'm the dumpee):

 

Been thinking about you a lot lately, and I’m unhappy with how things ended. I was needy/clingy when a couple people close to me died and I messed up our friendship. I understand that it was best for you though to end things between us & I enjoyed the time we spent together. Just wanted to extend an olive branch. Hope you’re well.

 

Got a response today:

"Thanks for your email though I didn't think there was any conflict. I always assumed we would be civil; I was never quite sure why you de-friended me on facebook etc. and took that as you intending to cut off communication so I simply mirrored my behavior as such. From my end, I have no hard feelings and think it's completely unnecessary to bring this conversation into this year, whether with me or especially with others (yes, things get back to me). Again, I have no hard feelings so just put this to rest and begin this semester accordingly."

 

I think I drunkenly mentioned to a mutual friend on thursday that her BF is real ugly (he is), & I know that was a mistake. This seems like a clear sign that she has no intention of being friends/whatever with me, so I guess I should just go permanent NC. I'm annoyed though, but I guess anything I say would be useless at this point. We were best friends before it all began, but I guess that doesn't really matter.

 

Here's a short summary of the situation.

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t230920/

[durkadurka]

Hey LS,

 

I broke NC mid-day last friday after 5 months NC with the following email (I'm the dumpee):

 

Been thinking about you a lot lately, and I’m unhappy with how things ended. I was needy/clingy when a couple people close to me died and I messed up our friendship. I understand that it was best for you though to end things between us & I enjoyed the time we spent together. Just wanted to extend an olive branch. Hope you’re well.

 

Got a response today:

"Thanks for your email though I didn't think there was any conflict. I always assumed we would be civil; I was never quite sure why you de-friended me on facebook etc. and took that as you intending to cut off communication so I simply mirrored my behavior as such. From my end, I have no hard feelings and think it's completely unnecessary to bring this conversation into this year, whether with me or especially with others (yes, things get back to me). Again, I have no hard feelings so just put this to rest and begin this semester accordingly."

 

I think I drunkenly mentioned to a mutual friend on thursday that her BF is real ugly (he is), & I know that was a mistake. This seems like a clear sign that she has no intention of being friends/whatever with me, so I guess I should just go permanent NC. I'm annoyed though, but I guess anything I say would be useless at this point. We were best friends before it all began, but I guess that doesn't really matter.

 

Here's a short summary of the situation.

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t230920/

 

Jeeze don't you hate it when girls are so emotionally devoid of any substance? It's a real bitch.

[USMCHokie]

I Broke NC after 5 months, got a response, what now?

 

This: "...so I guess I should just go permanent NC."

[wjg23g]

I am reading this correctly, right? There's nothing friendly in her email, it just says I'm over the stuff in the past, but doesn't sound like she's open to further friendship/communication, right?

 

Her writing is so formal I can barely understand it. Begin this semester accordingly? what does that mean haha?

[whatadeer26]

What a C*nt. You are soooo much better off. It sounds like she is holding a grudge for you bashing her new boyfriend and deleting her on FB. So she must obviously feel he is ugly or it wouldn't bother her.

 

Fade to black and find the humor in that e-mail.

[Heatemyheart89]

Uh oh probably shoulda stayed no contact!she sounds cold!move on and find someone better

[rattled]

Doesn't wish you well or hope that you're doing okay. Sounds like a b*itch to me. A little bit of common courtesy from her end wouldn't hurt would it? Jeeze Louise. Forget her.

[listen_to_me_please]

looks like she's over you and doesn't want you to talk about her to other people and forget you two ever dated.

 

looks like you should not contact her again.

[wjg23g]

Update- I didn't speak to this girl since this last exchange until this past Thursday. She came up to me at a Halloween party and said hello (was def drunk) I just nicely said hello and talked with her friends, but not her for a couple mins.

 

On Saturday though, I don't know what came over me, but i sent her a 1 line email saying i'd love to find out how her year is going and asked to have coffee this week. I immediately regretted doing this. She replied today, saying sure and that she has to check her schedule. (I assume she's still dating her bf, got no clue really)

 

2 things: 1) why'd she agree to meet up 2) advice for how to go about this meeting, presuming it happens. (I'm not even sure why I'm doing this, guess cause I haven't talked to her in a while)

[strength-abounds]

Walk away man, walk away. The email was a cold and emotional unattaching pile of words meant to stab you in the heart while the dirty w**** smiled.

 

Vanish of her radar for good.

[wjg23g]

Walk away man, walk away. The email was a cold and emotional unattaching pile of words meant to stab you in the heart while the dirty w**** smiled.

 

Vanish of her radar for good.

 

Sorry, I posted an update a post above. Not sure how to edit original posting