Author samsungxoxo Posted September 28, 2010 Author Posted September 28, 2010 Wow, now I like you even less. Makes me wonder how old you are because your way of thinking sounds teenagerish. I'm 23 years old.... I think the real issue is most of you men misinterpret us. No we're not desperate for a millionaire with a huge mansion spending money on us (we ear our money so it's no issue there) but we don't want the other extreme either. You do understand all extremities aren't good, don't ya? Ok how about from May 2007 till August 2010 (the month I dumped)... this was during our long distance relationship. From 2007-2008.. he didn't even bother calling for Valentines, Christmas, New Year nor my b-day (well he called but days later)... or not even a simple post card send out... Next... he would called out of nowhere a couple months later.... I obviously started losing interest in him (why would any woman be fond of a man like that?). Then comes late 2009-2010.... when he started calling more often but same cheapness and uncaring attitude, followed by broken promises of coming to my country and marrying me. He was suppose to come already around 2 years ago but would postpone it everything it was mentioned.... So I'm going overboard with the dumping part???
leftfordead2 Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 I'm 23 years old.... I think the real issue is most of you men misinterpret us. No we're not desperate for a millionaire with a huge mansion spending money on us (we ear our money so it's no issue there) but we don't want the other extreme either. You do understand all extremities aren't good, don't ya? Ok how about from May 2007 till August 2010 (the month I dumped)... this was during our long distance relationship. From 2007-2008.. he didn't even bother calling for Valentines, Christmas, New Year nor my b-day (well he called but days later)... or not even a simple post card send out... Next... he would called out of nowhere a couple months later.... I obviously started losing interest in him (why would any woman be fond of a man like that?). Then comes late 2009-2010.... when he started calling more often but same cheapness and uncaring attitude, followed by broken promises of coming to my country and marrying me. He was suppose to come already around 2 years ago but would postpone it everything it was mentioned.... So I'm going overboard with the dumping part??? Just curious, this guy whom you're talking about, is it the one where you cheated on him?
Author samsungxoxo Posted September 28, 2010 Author Posted September 28, 2010 Just curious, this guy whom you're talking about, is it the one where you cheated on him?I don't know if it was exactly cheating (since there was only dancing, some rubbing and grinding on my guy friend's lap at a party where we were both super drunk) but it's pointless as I don't really care. If it was cheating then he fully deserved it... no remorse here....
Woggle Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 I don't know if it was exactly cheating (since there was only dancing, some rubbing and grinding on my guy friend's lap at a party where we were both super drunk) but it's pointless as I don't really care. If it was cheating then he fully deserved it... no remorse here.... Perfect example of why there are so few gentlemen these days.
Mad Max Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 I don't know if it was exactly cheating (since there was only dancing, some rubbing and grinding on my guy friend's lap at a party where we were both super drunk) but it's pointless as I don't really care. If it was cheating then he fully deserved it... no remorse here.... Somehow, I think you'd be singing a completely different tune if you were the one that was cheated on.
Chrome Barracuda Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 Hmmm cheap men is a dealbreaker, but being a golddigger is not?!? Let me tell you something, if she wants me to buy expensive gifts and thinks all im good for she got another thing coming... Why should i buy a woman ANY gift if she isnt gonna be grateful for the thought. You know how many boyfriends treat their girlfriends like crap! dont get them anything for any occasion? Look if im gonna burn my hard earned money to buy you something out of the kindness of my heart dont complain about it. Thats the worse thing a woman can do to a man. Complain about something he gives her when his heart in the right place.
Author samsungxoxo Posted September 28, 2010 Author Posted September 28, 2010 Somehow, I think you'd be singing a completely different tune if you were the one that was cheated on.If it was me getting cheated on then it would be the easiest break-up ever... since there would be no need to fight for anything.
Author samsungxoxo Posted September 28, 2010 Author Posted September 28, 2010 Perfect example of why there are so few gentlemen these days.He wasn't behaving like a gentlemen (my parents never liked him either.... that's a good indicator of a loser..... they know best almost all the time) so he deserves crappy treatment in return. It makes sense... if someone has been giving you crappy stuff and acting cheap then return it back to them...
jamesum Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 I'm 23 years old.... I think the real issue is most of you men misinterpret us. No we're not desperate for a millionaire with a huge mansion spending money on us (we ear our money so it's no issue there) but we don't want the other extreme either. You do understand all extremities aren't good, don't ya? Ok how about from May 2007 till August 2010 (the month I dumped)... this was during our long distance relationship. From 2007-2008.. he didn't even bother calling for Valentines, Christmas, New Year nor my b-day (well he called but days later)... or not even a simple post card send out... Next... he would called out of nowhere a couple months later.... I obviously started losing interest in him (why would any woman be fond of a man like that?). Then comes late 2009-2010.... when he started calling more often but same cheapness and uncaring attitude, followed by broken promises of coming to my country and marrying me. He was suppose to come already around 2 years ago but would postpone it everything it was mentioned.... So I'm going overboard with the dumping part??? No one is denying that your ex-bf was big douche. However, all Im saying is that you dont sound like you are any better either. Okay, lets put it like this. You said that you deserve to be showered with gifts because you stay pretty around your bf. Now, what if you had a handsome bf who also took good care of himself around you. Do you think he deserves to be showered with gifts from you as well then? And are you actually going to throw money at him?
Author samsungxoxo Posted September 28, 2010 Author Posted September 28, 2010 Okay, lets put it like this. You said that you deserve to be showered with gifts because you stay pretty around your bf. Now, what if you had a handsome bf who also took good care of himself around you.It's a possibility but what does it hurt to be creative and put more effort to your girlfriend you've been with for a long while???? I don't ask for too much but neither do I want to be treated as leftovers. Do you think he deserves to be showered with gifts from you as well then?Not if the man never does it. If he would have been more generous then my mother would be the first telling me ''Give him a break already, your turn now'' but he wasn't. And are you actually going to throw money at him?How about a couple months ago where I send him items and he never picked them up always inventing excuses such as ''Oh I didn't have time'' or ''I had job, I will do it next week'' etc... He never even send me a post card while all my items had to be send back. What man wouldn't want to pick up items his girlfriend is sending from long distance?? A loser, ungrateful, cheap one only... This is what makes him a cheap loser.... not the fact of never sending me something but acting like one too.. Unpunctual, breaks promises all the time, stringing me along into this ''I'll come this year and marry you'',basically talking like a 17 year-old over the phone and basically referring to his other ex's as ''stupid girls''.
jamesum Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 So you want the two of you to shower each other with gifts?
Author samsungxoxo Posted September 28, 2010 Author Posted September 28, 2010 So you want the two of you to shower each other with gifts?I'm not demanding gifts everyone on a constant basis but ''Once in a while'' surprises or done for special occasions doesn't hurt too much. If not a gift how about a special hang-over (doesn't matter if it's just at the movies or club) but at least it means there's an effort put to it....
Tayla Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 Fact: 1: This was an LDR ... 2: Start growing up...learn from this and be civil to each gender. Consider this my PRICELESS gift to you.
Author samsungxoxo Posted September 29, 2010 Author Posted September 29, 2010 Thats okay then.Okay... this is what I was trying to explain... this ex wouldn't even do that and I'm suppose to be all sweet and patient still? It was funny when he stated how ''We girls have no patient'' LOL... I think I was the nicest one ever to put up with this for 4 years (10 months being the same place and the rest was the long distance thing). I know of no other girl that would have tolerated this. When I told this to a couple female friends at work (just to see if perhaps I overdid it or was too mean), all of them said they would have send him to hell by the 2rd or 3rd month..... The next man isn't going to get this lucky as my ex did (mainly due to my lack of experience, I was a virgin then). If he behaves the same as my ex, he wouldn't even reach the 2nd or 3rd month.. I've turned more radical and less emotional now....
Author samsungxoxo Posted September 29, 2010 Author Posted September 29, 2010 1: This was an LDR ... Yes it was for the most part and what I learned is LDR don't work. It's just a string-along with no real, complete commitment. 2: Start growing up...learn from this and be civil to each gender. Consider this my PRICELESS gift to you.Actually on the next relationship there will be none of those issues nor another string-along, dead-end relationship as he will be ditch very fast.
Mad Max Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 No one is denying that your ex-bf was big douche. However, all Im saying is that you dont sound like you are any better either. Okay, lets put it like this. You said that you deserve to be showered with gifts because you stay pretty around your bf. Now, what if you had a handsome bf who also took good care of himself around you. Do you think he deserves to be showered with gifts from you as well then? And are you actually going to throw money at him? Exactly. He was definitely a moron. But, at least be the better person and not sink to his level.
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