fmfan08 Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 Okay, so I like this girl and she likes me although I'm 18 and she is 15, she's a bit scared of people looking down at me because I've started uni + she is last year at school. I told her I'm not bothered as she makes me happy. (i'm a sensible guy btw, wouldn't take advantage of a girl, etc) Although, I asked her if she wanted to do something last weekend and she said yeah but on the day said she had to babysit as her mum was going hospital.. I thought it was an excuse but found out it was about her granddad (through her best mate). I saw pictures of some party she went to the night before too and noticed she was in the arms of some other guy in the background and were dancing, I had a go at her and shouldn't have. Her best mate told me they were both really drunk + girl herself told me she'd never go for him as he was an ex from 2 years ago. Just made me wonder if she really liked me, but she told me she really really does like me + her best mate was on phone to her and said that she like me too, her mate wouldn't lie would she? I've told her I'm sorry and want to work things out, she said she really wants to sort things out so I suggested Saturday to go out but it's her brothers party but she suggested Sunday + asked what time? This was her message: "Its not that I don't want to see you, I just think you should go for the other girl who likes you or whatever, I can't Saturday its my brothers birthday, what time sunday?" (when I had a go at her, I gave her impression I could move on easy + that another girl likes me... and posted status' about uni being a fresh start - she liked the status; mentioned it to me saying you probably don't want me anymore as you want fresh start) she did send me a huuuge message last week saying her feelings for me though how she thought I moved on (cos' I wasn't speaking to her, time to think) and she realized how upset she was, said she really really likes me (best mate said that too) and wants us to work and give things a proper go. she's had a lot of family problems this month though. she wouldn't have asked what time on Sunday to meet though would she? how do i make her feel comfortable with things, like what to say?
Don Ho Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 Bro, find a WOMAN. 18-20 years old. She's a child. In the U.S. you would get yourself in trouble for be involved with her.
Author fmfan08 Posted September 25, 2010 Author Posted September 25, 2010 Bro, find a WOMAN. 18-20 years old. She's a child. In the U.S. you would get yourself in trouble for be involved with her. I'm from UK, i've just turned 18 and she's nearly 16 so it's basically about 2 years difference but i know what the laws are, i wouldn't get involved sexually with her. She wants to give things a proper go but i just feel she's a bit uncomfy.
Author fmfan08 Posted September 25, 2010 Author Posted September 25, 2010 Bro find a nice 20 year old Understand where you coming from but i can't help who i fall for. I've met her mum before and when the girl came out to see me last time she was telling me how her mum couldn't stop talking about me + she know's i'm 18 too.
Iconoclast Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 i can't help who i fall for.. Rubbish. Of course you can. Son.. she's a girl. You're old enough for a woman now.
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