sbradford2 Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 The only time I get attention from a man is when I wear something tight or short. I am a plus size woman and feel that i am beautiful but I have tried the online dating sites and I never get any messages whatsoever. I changed my pictures quite a few times and still nothing. Last weekend I was in a store and this guy came up to me, introduced himself and we chatted for awhile. He said that he usually does not approach women because he is shy and he thought that since I smiled at him and said "hello" that he should give it a try. Ok here's the deal. During our conversation he mentioned that he wanted to be honest with me and said that he has been in a rehabilitation program for using drugs and that he is trying to change his life. He also is from the same part of town that my parents live in and I asked my mom if she knew of him and she said that from what she knows is that he stays in and out of jail. I know that people could change but where should I go with this? Should I give him my number of stay away?
NeverLetMeDownAgain Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 I'd approach it very, very carefully and make sure that he's following the recommendations of his program and his probation/parole officer, should he have one. Keep it on a light, friendly basis for now - try not to be intimate with this guy too much until you know he's starting to straighten his life out. Do you know what he's been convicted/accused of? How likely is it that he'll have trouble finding employment?
brainblox Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 Get out in the real world and forget the Cyber Love , You know most of those guys(and girls,,,not you ) fabricate there profiles. If you need a confidence boost just get out the house and go to a club with a gf and chill, sure your perfectly fine. Don't beat yourself up, get out and enjoy life !
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