leal10 Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 me and my ex GF broke 11 days ago...we have been NC 99% of the time...just 2 between...and we talked normally...she sounded so cold...so not interested in recovering this relationship...that i didn't even tried to talk about us being together again...after all i dumped her...not cause i wanted it...cause i had it...i was fed of stubbornes and doing nothing from her side... but i saw she wrote on msn "it's hard to tell your mind not loving someone when your heart still does"... something like this...what should that mean??? i want to read your opinions...thanks
leftfield Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 Don't read too much into comments like that. She could just be fishing for sympathy from other people. Announcing publicly that she deserves to be heard and asked about how she's doing. You did dump her after all. My ex wrote something similar on Facebook at one point (although she was the dumper), but it was nothing. I assume from what you've written that you do want to recover the relationship? If you dumped her and she's hurting about it then you need to let her calm down before you go steaming in to patch things up - if she even wants to. You broke her trust when you ended it, so unless she's desperate to get back with you you'd better approach with caution.
The-Zen-Warrior Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 (edited) but i saw she wrote on msn "it's hard to tell your mind not loving someone when your heart still does"... I don't want to sound "cold" here, but don't buy into this crap for one minute! That little "make herself feel good" things you saw her post on her MSN thing, was exactly that, just for her! This more than likely was not for the people she talks to on MSN, and this most certainly was not for you. All this was, more than likely, was her attempt to give herself a "coping" statement. Now I can't give to much advise and or help here, unless I know a little bit more information. And by the way, if in the future you would like more help or advise from others in regards to your future posts, I would suggest giving us more history about what woes you, and or more information. So why not post a little more here! Who knows, if you post more substance and less "bread crumbs" you might get the very answer or piece of advise you are looking for...............Just a thought! Edited September 24, 2010 by The-Zen-Warrior Miss Spelled A Word....
Billie The Puppet Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 me and my ex GF broke 11 days ago...we have been NC 99% of the time...just 2 between...and we talked normally...she sounded so cold...so not interested in recovering this relationship...that i didn't even tried to talk about us being together again...after all i dumped her...not cause i wanted it...cause i had it...i was fed of stubbornes and doing nothing from her side... but i saw she wrote on msn "it's hard to tell your mind not loving someone when your heart still does"... something like this...what should that mean??? i want to read your opinions...thanks Were you going out with my dad? I swear it's his msn status!
tinybear5 Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 well when ipost things like that online, a part of me wants him to say something
Username37 Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 me and my ex GF broke 11 days ago...we have been NC 99% of the time...just 2 between...and we talked normally...she sounded so cold...so not interested in recovering this relationship...that i didn't even tried to talk about us being together again...after all i dumped her...not cause i wanted it...cause i had it...i was fed of stubbornes and doing nothing from her side... but i saw she wrote on msn "it's hard to tell your mind not loving someone when your heart still does"... something like this...what should that mean??? i want to read your opinions...thanks Doesn't mean anything. She's just looking for attention. She WANTS someone to talk to her about YOU and she'll proceed to talk trash about you etc. That's if you dumped her. If she dumped you, she probably wants you to talk to her. Or get a reaction. Who knows? They play games.
LostInTurn Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 We could tell you what we 'think' that statement means all day. What will that do though? It's speculation. The only person who knows is her, maybe. She may not even know what she was thinking when she wrote that. You left her. You apparently had good reasons for doing so. Why are you even questioning this? You shouldn't care, in my opinion.
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