twinbladz Posted February 25, 2004 Posted February 25, 2004 hey, i need some advice!! I like this girl in my school, i see her almost every day, and i know she see's me, and i want to talk to her but not make the situation akward. How do i approch her?? How do i start a conversation with a girl that i hardly know?? If you guys can help me out that would be great. Im fine with talking to girls and all, its just making the first move.
Bubbles Posted February 25, 2004 Posted February 25, 2004 Hey, Why don't you pass her a note in the hallway that reads: Hi cutie! Give me a call sometime! write your name and number on the note and....watch her as she walks away and make sure that you are available for eye contact and a smile. It worked on me once.....I thought that was so cute. Bubbles
JetScooterSteve Posted February 26, 2004 Posted February 26, 2004 Thanks bubbles, i needed something like that too
Author twinbladz Posted February 26, 2004 Author Posted February 26, 2004 do you really think that would work?? because i dont want to girl to feel weird and blow my chances. I want to be able to start off as her friend or something like that, atleast get to know her or something, then ask her out. I dont know if i should take it slow or just ask her for he number. I havent done this for a long time, i usually date girls that i already know. i havent asked for a girls number in a long time. any other ideas? ... dont get me wrong, that idea probably would work too bubbles.
Bubbles Posted February 26, 2004 Posted February 26, 2004 Hey twinbladz, First......you DO NOT ask a woman for her telephone number. Any woman that is aware of the day and age that we live in will not feel at ease about giving you her number, so by offering YOUR number you will be accomplishing two things. 1) You have made her feel at ease by not asking for something personal from her. 2) If she calls you, you will then know FOR SURE that she is interested! Now....how does my idea sound? Better? C'mon you have to trust me here, I am an older woman! I know what would work and what does not. Bubbles
dolphinsunshyn Posted February 27, 2004 Posted February 27, 2004 Unless she thinks your are completely repulsive, chances are that she will feel very flattered. Girls, for the most part like the guy to make the first move just the same as a guy would feel flattered if a girl made the first move. It exudes confindence which is very sexy and intriging. Find out where she hangs out or what interests she may have and then look for common ground. Do you have a class together? start up a conversation about it. Or look at her books, do you notice a book you have already read? Stuff like that is an easy way to break the ice. Go into it not looking to date her, but just looking to make a new friend. The pressure would be off and things wouldn't seem akward if she doesn't think you are "hitting" on her. Treat her like you would if you were meeting another guy. After the ice has been broken, it will be easier for you to pursue dating her.
Author twinbladz Posted March 1, 2004 Author Posted March 1, 2004 how do i tell if she is interested?? thanks for the advice, this is really good stuff. She is in my gym class though, and i see her walking around the field house on the track. I dont really know how to approch her in that area. or maybe when she is in the hallways. But she is never alone, how do i deal with that?? or how do i approch her with friends around? should i just give her a note with my number on it or something?
JetScooterSteve Posted March 1, 2004 Posted March 1, 2004 yeah pretty much, shes probably hiding her thoughts between her friends, so u can go up and say "can i talk to u for a sec" or somethin like that. otherwise, go with bubbles' idea.
dolphinsunshyn Posted March 1, 2004 Posted March 1, 2004 Gym class, huh? Easy enough...If she walking/running around the track challage her to a race or run by her and "accidently" bump into her arm. Not too hard though, you don't want to hurt the poor girl. Or you could strike up a conversation about sports. Do you guys play games in gym class? Talk the team captin into picking both of you for the same team. What a great opportunity to exchange high fives when your team scores! Wether or not she would be interested, who knows. But my theory is life is too short! The only regrets you have are, not what you have done, but the chances that you don't take! There has to be an opportunity when you see her alone eventually. Take that as your window and just go for it. Confidence is very sexy!
dolphinsunshyn Posted March 1, 2004 Posted March 1, 2004 Oh, wait....got another idea! This would get me if I was her. If you know her name, send her some flowers from a "secret admirer" then write a message saying that you go to the same school and you see her around, ect. Give her little clues about who you are and stuff you life so she doesn't think it is too weird. It will also peak her cuiosity as to who you are. End the note by saying if she is interested in finding out more to meet you at such 'n such place at such 'n such time. I'm sure you have seen the senerio in a movie. Personally, I would be swept off of my feet and my cuiosity would be so strong that I would have to see who it is.
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