confusedasever Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 My boyfriend goes to strip clubs and has an extreme wandering eye.... We have been together for about 10 months, and I knew this about him in the beginning. I didn't think we would get so serious and so I didn't really let it bother me. Well now, we are kind of serious and even tell each other we love each other. And I do love him, A LOT!! The strip club thing doesn't get to me so much, (maybe a little) he doesn't go all the time, maybe a few times a year with the guys. If he is out of town working, I will NOT call or text him after a certain time at night, because I don't want to know/react to him being at one. When we are out in public together, he is totally checking out other chicks and doesn't even try to hide it. Also, when we are watching T.V or movies he will say things like "whoa, hot chic" or something along those lines..... he actually watches the stupid movies just because of half naked chicks. Stupid. And piggy! I do trust him. The funny thing is that he is VERY jealous and doesn't hide it. I give him a taste of his own medicine too. I will make comments about hot men or purposely "look". I am pretty sure he doesn't like it. Is this game playing? I let him know I think it's rude but didn't push the issue. Not really sure what my point is here, guess I am dwelling on it lately. Am I just being nit picky? I think I am to passive, and do not want to sound prudish.
Untouchable_Fire Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 I do trust him. The funny thing is that he is VERY jealous and doesn't hide it. I give him a taste of his own medicine too. I will make comments about hot men or purposely "look". I am pretty sure he doesn't like it. Is this game playing? I let him know I think it's rude but didn't push the issue. Not really sure what my point is here, guess I am dwelling on it lately. Am I just being nit picky? I think I am to passive, and do not want to sound prudish. It's not just rude... It's disrespectful. I think your reacting correctly, his attitude needs realignment. Don't put up with it anymore.
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