whoawhoawhoa Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 Hi everybody and thank you for taking the time to read my post,i'll try to be be brief,i don't write that much,but i read a lot,very helpful forum,i wrote several months ago about this situation and eventually came to inevitable break up, Me and ex fiance were engage for a year after going out for 3 tru a rocky relationship cause of her fam not accepting me,they are very prejudice people.Well,my mom that lives alone out of state came recently to visit me and to meet her parents,i'm my mom only son,and i don't see her in 2 years,you know,and since my mother came,my ex was acting weird,making a scene in front of her cause i was late 5 mins,my mom was in shock,anyways we talk it out,but then the next weekend,we had a late night fight and my ex still wanted me to continue with the plan of spending time with her fam,and i told her that we were having problems and that we should call it off for now,she hung up the phone on me (like always) i call her again and i told her that i would go,but with the condition that we seek help,counseling,i didn't want to continue with the fights 6 months shy of our wedding,she hung up the phone once again and then basically dumped me and put her parents against me,by saying that i prefer my mom over her,wth?? i love her to death,but i'm so sad and confused,i don't know what to think,cause i don't think is fair and that she is didn't love me like i taught,unbelievable.sighs,what should i do? try to win her back and posible get hurt even more,cause she's telling me hurtful things already over texts,cause don't even want to talk over the phone let alone see me,or let her go and accept she is not worth it? thanks for any output
Don Ho Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 Move on Bro. Easy for me to say, but that's what you have to do. No, you should not marry her for sure (if that's even an option at this point). Be glad you found out now that the two of you just don't get along instead of getting married and then divorced in a few years. You think you're in misery now, just imagine if you had gone down that road. Dating is suppose to be to find out if you're compatible with someone, not just you fall in love and get married. Sounds like you're not compatible. Move on. You'll be fine and find the right one.
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