tani Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 (edited) I'm 22 yr old in a relationship with a 23 yr old guy. We are together for a yr now. In the starting of our relation he was very caring loving & always respected my feelings. I was the one to get upset over small things and do breakup quite often. But he always use to convince me to get me back. When it was his mistake, he made sure that i forgive him genuinely. He made every possible attempts to make me stay back. But things changed. He was extremly possessive about me and once he hit me in the middle of the road. So i decided to part ways. He said sorry, he came after me to convince me. He cried a lot for his mistake. But i was very upset. For 2 months he tried convincing me. One day i got mad & told him to just go away from my life. That day he actually left, he didnt call me at all. otherwise in this 2 months period he always use 2 call & msg me. But then i started missing him a lot. i thought of giving him a chance. so i called him after a week of his disappearance. But to my surprise i got to know that he got back to his ex-gf. But i knew it was just to forget me. He didnt love her. So i asked him to come back. I had to beg this time to make him come back. He did come back to me. But now i was insecure & he is over confident. He knows that if i can accept him even when he went to some other girl, i can forgive him for any of his mistake & will never leave him. He has started taking advantage of it. He takes me for granted now. But at the same time i know that he really loves me. But I'm totally depended on him, he knows very well. He doesnt respect my feelings like before. He thinks mere sorry should be enough for his mistakes. Even when i say i'm hurt, he doesnt seem to care much. What do i do? I want him to be like before. He should think twice before being rude or doing something which may hurt me. But he doesnt because he knows that anytime he can say sorry, even if he doesnt, i ll still forgive & forget and wont leave him ever. P.S- I cant leave him because i'm very sure that he loves me. I just want to change his behaviour. Edited September 23, 2010 by tani
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