BarrTex01 Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 We have been broken up for 1 week. We had our first post date last night. She was smiling and laughing all night. She told me today she had fun and would love to do it again. Everyone says be careful she wants your money. I have trouble with women calling me a play boy, pretty boy and such. She does too but I dont think she wants money or looks. I care about her deeply she said she wanted me to run after her and say come home. She had been waiting on that I told her I was respecting her space and time since she was the one who left. We have a better understanding with eachothers emotions though today I told her I pour out like a water hose and shes quite as a fart in church about hers. She just tells me sorry love you will know soon patients. She rushed the whole 2 months we were together and I need patients?? haha. I hugged her last night and said come home soon. Shes getting a job 100 miles back were she lives with her folks. She said she would transfer if it came to her being here again. I have alot of questions but dont want to ask she knows in my eyes im scared of loosing her for good she said i see it in your eyes your scared. Dang right shes my world I am scared but stay as strong as I can threw this. She was mad that I have never propoused but to me its a one time deal shes been married twice. Am I setting myself up for heart break again? Should I wait for her to contact me again? She tells me nothing but think about what I say but is it ok that I have no clue what she wants? I go here because everyone here just says be done with her but I cant she has my heart I just dont want it shattered.
durkadurka Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 We have been broken up for 1 week. We had our first post date last night. She was smiling and laughing all night. She told me today she had fun and would love to do it again. Everyone says be careful she wants your money. I have trouble with women calling me a play boy, pretty boy and such. She does too but I dont think she wants money or looks. I care about her deeply she said she wanted me to run after her and say come home. She had been waiting on that I told her I was respecting her space and time since she was the one who left. We have a better understanding with eachothers emotions though today I told her I pour out like a water hose and shes quite as a fart in church about hers. She just tells me sorry love you will know soon patients. She rushed the whole 2 months we were together and I need patients?? haha. I hugged her last night and said come home soon. Shes getting a job 100 miles back were she lives with her folks. She said she would transfer if it came to her being here again. I have alot of questions but dont want to ask she knows in my eyes im scared of loosing her for good she said i see it in your eyes your scared. Dang right shes my world I am scared but stay as strong as I can threw this. She was mad that I have never propoused but to me its a one time deal shes been married twice. Am I setting myself up for heart break again? Should I wait for her to contact me again? She tells me nothing but think about what I say but is it ok that I have no clue what she wants? I go here because everyone here just says be done with her but I cant she has my heart I just dont want it shattered. My lord you are such a bitch if you fall for this right away. It's been a ****ING week. None of the problems that happened have been fixed. My ex pulled this stunt on me, honestly, you're getting into an even bigger problem if you get back with her.
Veronica K Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 ...I have alot of questions but dont want to ask she knows in my eyes im scared of loosing her for good she said i see it in your eyes your scared. Dang right shes my world I am scared but stay as strong as I can threw this. She was mad that I have never propoused but to me its a one time deal shes been married twice. Am I setting myself up for heart break again? Should I wait for her to contact me again? She tells me nothing but think about what I say but is it ok that I have no clue what she wants? I go here because everyone here just says be done with her but I cant she has my heart I just dont want it shattered. It is just no good to be a position in which you feel that you cannot ask about very fundamental things.
skydiveaddict Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 You know what I say? I say, **** this ****. Life is too short for these headache mind games. I got dizzy just reading this. **** her. I agree w/soupy. This almost never happens for real and it is not worth getting your heart smashed all over again
TaraMaiden Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 We have been broken up for 1 week. Feels longer.... We had our first post date last night. Pardon.....? WTF would that be, exactly? She was smiling and laughing all night. All night? I thought only Air Hostesses and beauticians could do that... She told me today she had fun and would love to do it again. Sounds like you get on better broken up, than together. Stay broken up, she's putty in your hands....! Everyone says be careful she wants your money. I have trouble with women calling me a play boy, pretty boy and such. She does too but I dont think she wants money or looks. Nooooo... Of course not. Everyone else must be wrong,. but you, with the rose-tinted spec's must be right. Sure.... Ok, sorry...Carry on.... I care about her deeply she said she wanted me to run after her and say come home. She had been waiting on that I told her I was respecting her space and time since she was the one who left. In dating circles, you would be referred to as the yo-yo doormat....do you remember where you left your balls, or do you think you should grow some new ones? And your spine could do with a service.... We have a better understanding with eachothers emotions though today I told her I pour out like a water hose and shes quite as a fart in church about hers. She just tells me sorry love you will know soon patients. She rushed the whole 2 months we were together and I need patients?? haha. Are you a Doctor? MAybe she likes your bedside manner... She could do with a taste of her own medicine, frankly.... I hugged her last night and said come home soon. Shes getting a job 100 miles back were she lives with her folks. Wish the next guys she shacks up with there, good luck. he's going to need it.... She said she would transfer if it came to her being here again. I VERY much doubt that. Out of sight, out of mind..... I have alot of questions but dont want to ask she knows in my eyes im scared of loosing her for good she said i see it in your eyes your scared. So you're a doctor. What is she, an optician? She's saying what you want to hear. Manipulative doesn't cover it.... Dang right shes my world I am scared but stay as strong as I can threw this. Are you nuts? How can somebody like this be your world? Please, get a grip....! She was mad that I have never propoused but to me its a one time deal shes been married twice. So you already know you're setting yourself up for a failed relationship, because you believe she would do it again. Am I setting myself up for heart break again? Yes. Should I wait for her to contact me again? Whatever. ignore it if she does. She tells me nothing but think about what I say but is it ok that I have no clue what she wants? No, but it doesn't matter.... I go here because everyone here just says be done with her because this is precisely what you should do... but I cant she has my heart I just dont want it shattered. Oh come on! How long have you guys been together? 8 years? 8 months? Oh no - hang on - 8 weeks!! Puh-leeeeese!!
Author BarrTex01 Posted September 23, 2010 Author Posted September 23, 2010 Hey yall all have been a big help. I feel like my man card was stripped by this woman but I am starting to forget about it. What ever happens happens but she cant say I wasnt a good man to her in every way thats what everyone is telling me.
yazy Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 geta move on and forget her.She knows you want her and she knows how to use it.emotional blackmail.Ive seen this before and I am a female.So please dont worry about her and get out while you can.She probably has someone on the side "sorry to say" thats why she is acting this way. NOT RİGHT, you deserve better.Good Luck
Author BarrTex01 Posted September 23, 2010 Author Posted September 23, 2010 Now she text me this morning it was short and sweet she said goodmorning love hope you have a great day. I replied well I sure will now! Hope you have a day as amazing and perfect as you are. I been wanting to text her somthing else. Since yesterday at 3 that was the first time I heard from her. I am always the one to text first but finally it was her. I guess I should keep up the no contact huh? I hate games but it feels like in stuck in one. I asked her if I should give up and move on or should I wait she said be patient and hang in there. We are suppose to see eachother soon but Idk if it will happen. Since no one ever seems to think any of this is my fault I am starting to feel like I dont know why I am fighting for her anymore. I guess time will tell....
Billie The Puppet Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 Now she text me this morning it was short and sweet she said goodmorning love hope you have a great day. I replied well I sure will now! Hope you have a day as amazing and perfect as you are. I been wanting to text her somthing else. Since yesterday at 3 that was the first time I heard from her. I am always the one to text first but finally it was her. I guess I should keep up the no contact huh? I hate games but it feels like in stuck in one. I asked her if I should give up and move on or should I wait she said be patient and hang in there. We are suppose to see each other soon but Idk if it will happen. Since no one ever seems to think any of this is my fault I am starting to feel like I dont know why I am fighting for her anymore. I guess time will tell.... So you asked to be her fall back guy basically by you asking if you should wait.
brainblox Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 Why don't you try repeatedly bashing your hand with a hammer? Had to laff ! This story makes me glad I've accepted my relationship is history,I was like this for two weeks feeling privileged to be still in contact with the person that broke my heart. Your not a toy so get busy and don't let her use you as such, will end in tears !
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