LKV Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 My ex and I had just recently broken up 2 months ago, during summer. After weeks later I met a new guy and he was also talking to another girl. Things had happened between me and the new guy. Same thing happened for ex and his girl. So somehow we ended up talking to each other again. We talked, and he asked me "Do you still love me?" and I said yes. So then when school started we've been holding hands, kissing, and etc. While that was going on, I heard a rumor that he liked my bestfriend. I comfronted to him on her birthday and he got mad at me. After that, we haven't talked to each other for weeks. And while seeing him in school. I can see that he's smiling and laughing and doesn't even acknowledge me or what was happening. So I just ignored it and did my thing. After few weeks of not talking he ended up IMing me like nothing had happened. So I just go along with it. And recently just now I heard from my friends that he talks about my bestfriend alot to them. Saying that she's cute and how he want her so bad. He even wants to ask her to homecoming. But the thing is my BF hates him and she's talking to somebody else. But when I found out I was sad..like having to see him at school and having my friends on me about them two..I tried to ignore it and talked to somebody new but in the end, he always come to mind. Any advice?
Trovador Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 Quit your ex, a day at a time... realize he's not the one (in case there was one) and if were he around you, you'd end despising him... remember, you idealize those you can't have and familiarity breeds contempt... and give someone else (and yourself) a chance...
Author LKV Posted September 23, 2010 Author Posted September 23, 2010 I tried to give this new guy a chance, but my ex finds a way back everytime. I'm too vulernable aren't I? And as much as I want to say no and prevent myself from talking to him, I will lose against not wanting to. But thank you Trovador =)
Don Ho Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 I tried to give this new guy a chance, but my ex finds a way back everytime. I'm too vulernable aren't I? And as much as I want to say no and prevent myself from talking to him, I will lose against not wanting to. But thank you Trovador =) You must like mental abuse then if you keep wanting him! LOL. WTH Sista? You need to get a new, confident attitude that your Ex is the one that lost out on YOU. I think you should be the one smirking at your Ex. Fck him, his loss. Your Ex only finds a way back if you let him. Have some backbone. No, you do not have to lose against wanting him, it's called willpower. Don't be a sap. Forget about your Ex and move on. Remember, when you break up with someone, all you all left is your dignity .... do not give that away too.
Author LKV Posted September 24, 2010 Author Posted September 24, 2010 Maybe, you're right. I'll keep in mind what you guys had said.
brainblox Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 No maybe bout it, it's the cold hard reality lol
Trovador Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 Amen, bro... And LKV, remember that you deserve better, you were too much for him and he'll realize what he just lost until you keep him at bay... rest knowing that sooner than later he will be truly sorry for what he let go...
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