Juliebug Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 I just broke up with my EX-boyfriend. Right now, I feel great. He was planning to meet up with his ex and through snooping - say what you want, but it saved me this time! And I know the consequences: You just might find out something that you would rather not know - I realised that I was being played. However - I am sure I will wake up tomorrow and feel awful. Partially because of the wine I'm having right now (a little party for myself, so to speak), partially because he was my first boyfriend and I'm not sure I will get back on my feet very soon. Is it true? Is the first relationship so special that you can't get it out of your head? Was this as good as it gets? If so, I'm screwed. Would love to hear about your experiences.
Feelin Frisky Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 It's really what you tell yourself and whether or not you keep reinforcing whatever negativity you feel. Dealing with a hard emotional reality can be even more bothersome if one has to do that with a hang-over too. Breakup of the first relationship is not a death sentence of the spirit--unless of course one takes it that way. I advise not despairing and try to have faith in the future and your ability to land on your feet and open new chapters. Love can happen that will make all this seem like kid stuff.
Leandro Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 Well my first love left me a little over a month ago. I still think about her but I'm moving on. I know I will fall in love again and this time it will be with someone who treats me right and actually cares for me. You might remember him but it gets better. Learn from that relationship to make future relationships better!
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