DeSantos Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 We have been together for 8 months, I feel its not working between us at all, she argues at me all the time. Every month it seems something new that I've done, from moving out of my parents to a 1 bedroom apartment (she argued about the fact my apartment was only 1 bedroom and where would her son sleep --- its all I could afford) to myself having something going on with my aunt as we speak on blackberry alot (even though she lives in a different country and lord knows the thought of me even having an affair with one of my relatives just seems sooooo wrong) and there is also the issue of her not meeting any of my family yet... So now the last argument we had she said I was the worst relationship she had since splitting with her father's son (who cheated and dumped her after she gave birth), she also said not even her previous **** buddies treat her like I do (she says even they have let her meet their family and friends), i have not cheated on her. I do have feelings for her, I do love her, but I can't carry on like this, after 8 months I feel so down inside, like a changed person. Last week before the argument I told her I love her and she is my world, but now I just feel like crap after all the things she said, she says she was angry when she said them and for me to let them go... What should I do, am I in the wrong for suddenly having a change of heart after all the arguments and the last argument we had ?? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ShannonMI Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 We have been together for 8 months, I feel its not working between us at all, she argues at me all the time. Every month it seems something new that I've done, from moving out of my parents to a 1 bedroom apartment (she argued about the fact my apartment was only 1 bedroom and where would her son sleep --- its all I could afford) to myself having something going on with my aunt as we speak on blackberry alot (even though she lives in a different country and lord knows the thought of me even having an affair with one of my relatives just seems sooooo wrong) and there is also the issue of her not meeting any of my family yet... So now the last argument we had she said I was the worst relationship she had since splitting with her father's son (who cheated and dumped her after she gave birth), she also said not even her previous **** buddies treat her like I do (she says even they have let her meet their family and friends), i have not cheated on her. I do have feelings for her, I do love her, but I can't carry on like this, after 8 months I feel so down inside, like a changed person. Last week before the argument I told her I love her and she is my world, but now I just feel like crap after all the things she said, she says she was angry when she said them and for me to let them go... What should I do, am I in the wrong for suddenly having a change of heart after all the arguments and the last argument we had ?? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No you are not wrong for the sudden change of heart. If all you do is argue, it's not a healthy relationship. The aunt thing is totally weird too. She sounds a little paranoid. You aren't allowed to talk to family members? And if you do, it means you are having an affair? She's a headcase! Let this girl go. She sounds like nothing but trouble. It's like you can't do anything to please her.
Billie The Puppet Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 I think you mean son's father, not father's son as that makes it sound like she was with her brother Anyways if you have to come to a forum and ask what do you think? Do you love/are in love with her? Can you put up with more arguments? Personally it sounds unhealthy.
Author DeSantos Posted September 22, 2010 Author Posted September 22, 2010 sorry, yes I mean son's father... an no, i can't really put up with anymore arguments, I know every couple argues, but this started like well early in this relationship and its driving me mad... I do love her, but each time we argue I feel I love her less...
Billie The Puppet Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 sorry, yes I mean son's father... an no, i can't really put up with anymore arguments, I know every couple argues, but this started like well early in this relationship and its driving me mad... I do love her, but each time we argue I feel I love her less... I think that is your answer.
LoveAintEverything Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 Wow she seem like such a bitch that likes to control you, I am sure you can do a lot better
D-Lish Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 Doesn't sound like anything you do will ever be good enough for this girl. She sounds pretty draining to be around.
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