loverofloveandstuff Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 Okay, so my bestfriend and I went out a couple of years ago, I broke up with him after 3 months. He wouldn't speak to me for 6 months because he needed some time to cool off...Since then, he's been my closest friend. I tell him everything. We talk about everything from our sex lives to our family lives, uni, work, etc. You get the jist, we are very close. For the duration of this period, it has also been and felt very platonic. No funny business. I'm not sure what brought this on... but I have started to feel attracted to him again. I have a feeling (but not entirely sure) that it's due to the fact he's a close guy friend who hasn't tried to hit on me. And it's definitely partly due to the fact he's been seeing and sleeping with a lot of girls recently (someone please tell me why I find this attractive? Ugh.) On the other hand, I might have serious feelings for him but I'm just in denial. Anyway, I don't want a relationship with him so that's not the issue. Even if I did I'm pretty sure he doesn't consider me relationship material. Awhile ago we were discussing our relationship and how other people find it weird that we're so close and yet not together. He was a bit drunk and said that he's not stupid (regarding what, he didn't specify) and how his other girl friend told him it was never a good idea to get involved with me. (I guess she was right to some degree as our romantic relationship came to an end. However, this girl doesn't know anything about me. I met her once and actually thought she was a really nice girl until I heard some of the things she said about me.) So my problem is, I feel like the whole dynamic of our relationship has changed. And it's probably just me. I feel like I'm acting weird and awkward and I just want things to go back to normal! Should I say something to him about it? I usually tell him everything so this feels like such a big thing to keep from him. Thanks guys
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