yazy Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 Dont know where to start.I have been in a relationship of 2 yrs and it ended 5 days go.It has been rough for me these 2 yrs because we argued alot and he did alot of wrongs during our relationship.Dont want to get into details cuase some of things he did wasnt at all neat.he was a b........Anyways I said to him if you dont pull your act together I will leave you.He would say you cant leave me, you cant do without me and bla bla..he was getting smart and acting all top s..., but he did something once more and it was over.I told him its over and never to contact me again.he hasn't and neither have I.I never do.Last night as I was driving home I came across him on the street face to face.he gave me the biggest grease and he was so angry he was checking to see who was in my car as I drove by and he turned around as I drove to see where I was going.I came eye to eye with him but I was cool.No smiles,anything.the funny thing is that I think he expected me to stop and talk to him or pick him up.I could tell cause as soon he saw me he slowed down his pace.What I dont understand is should I have stopped and talked to him or was it a good idea for me to drive and not stop to show that I dont care anymore? It felt so wierd.I dont know why I even felt like that because he did so much things to me to hurt me.How strange.I even excpected him to call me or text me he didnt.Is thier something worng with me???? Why am I confused????
Trovador Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 So you are the dumper and you are suffering... but not as much as if you had stayed in the relationship... it's normal to feel devastated after a break up, no matter what side you are in, and it's normal to have doubts about the whole thing... but if you are not happy with him and he causes more pain and anger than peace of mind and spirit, why were you with him in the first place... ? You did well ignoring him, keep your part of the bargain and don't contact him because if you do you are denying him the potential chance of changing when he realizes he has really lost you this time... if you contact him you are handing him the power and he won´t have the incentive to improve himself... be strong!
Caradavine Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 In my opinion, your ex sounds like a bully with a chip on his shoulder to boot. I think you did the best thing for you in getting away. Please don't ever stop for him if that happens again. I understand your pain, though, because you did the right thing but if you've been putting up with it for around two years, then there is another part of you who thinks it may have been a mistake because he could change or you could change. I hope you make it through this with total strength and stay away from him, and I'm sorry you are going through this.
Author yazy Posted September 23, 2010 Author Posted September 23, 2010 I am so happy with what I did because I just found out from his brother he was more into my money than into me.Do you Believe? I thought so also but never wanted to think that way, since I was doing everything.I was more into the love thing than anything else.My money situation is much better than his but I never acted like a b.cth.How sad hey..A guy selling himself just for a few clothes rides food jellewry I dont feel bad at all now.As a women I am even better and stronger than before.I can see how low he is and this shows he can and will do anything for money.Makes me sick to think I was with someone like that.But I guess we all make mistakes.One never to be repeated What a great lesson it has been for me.Just wanted to share with you all.thank you for listening.God keep people like this away from our loved ones
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