NayWinter Posted October 5, 2010 Posted October 5, 2010 thanks for the laugh on an otherwise miserable evening Yay, I'm glad you're laughing . I didn't have time to post much, so I'll catch up tomorrow. Hope you have a great night, hugs.
samsungxoxo Posted October 5, 2010 Posted October 5, 2010 I did tell him that, and his response was "go ahead, it's a public street". His ego is the size of the universe.I meant it for bittermelon but it's ok... you two have similar stories with those cheating loser... Wow he doesn't care.... ok gotta say that statement made me laugh too.. How about let's party and put those two losers in ''NeverExisted Land'' lol....
NayWinter Posted October 5, 2010 Posted October 5, 2010 I meant it for bittermelon but it's ok... you two have similar stories with those cheating loser... Wow he doesn't care.... ok gotta say that statement made me laugh too.. How about let's party and put those two losers in ''NeverExisted Land'' lol.... Oh, sorry about that. I thought you meant that for me. I'm all for the party and I especially like NeverExisted Land .
elizabeth26 Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 Oh geez. What you went through is terrible. I'm so sorry. I'm happy to hear that you found love again though. I went through a break up (not my recent one) several years ago, and it took me a year to really begin to recover. I hope it doesn't take you that long. I know it's hard, OP, myself and plenty of others on LS are going through the same emotions with you. You're not alone. Hopefully posting here has given you some help, and even some hope for the future. I know the great people on here have helped me out so much that I give them most of the credit for handling my situation the way I have been. I wish you the very best of luck. Thankyou! LS makes a world of difference, sometimes you need to vent and hear what others in the same situation are going through, it makes moving on easier. My ex was a long drawn out lying waste of time. And I let it go on for nearly 8 years, so that is my part of blame. I felt in my heart towards the end that he was using me to keep from being lonely. Kudos to you btw for walking, it is not easy to do but he definitely does not deserve your love and respect.
elizabeth26 Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 Really? I've come to think of this line as equally useless and pathetic as the "it's not you, it's me" line that guys like to randomly throw out. You're too good for me and I don't deserve that? Don't people want the best that they can get? Is there a difference between being "good enough and 'too good' "? I'd like to know. Sorry to hear about your crummy situation. Like myself and naywinter, you've obviously invested a lot of time in a relationship with someone who turned out to be a total scum. BUT I am very happy to hear that you're involved with someone else now and it's going well. I understand you saying that it's hard to trust the next person but hopefully with time you'll come to realize that he's not your ex and just because one person blindsided you doesn't mean you have to spend the rest of your life living in suspicion. Naywinter, I'm SO proud of you for walking away!!! It's HARD! I know because yesterday evening I actually bumped into my ex at the drugstore (serious coincidence) and he was happy to see me even though we had a horrible breakup. I have to be honest, my heart wanted to just hug him and it took every ounce of strength I had to look nonchalent and play indifference when he tried to make small talk with me. It worked because he ended up texting me all evening, said "love you". Ha, did he think that when the other girl was in his bed? Then today, he had the nerve to text me as a joke that he was coming by to get me. Needless to say, I never let it happen, but it RUINED MY EVENING! hearing from him is worse than not hearing from him because now he's like a bad song that won't leave my head. Well, I learned my lesson the hard way today. Next time I see him, I'm not going to walk, I'm going to RUN the other way. Stay strong - you are one tough girl and I will continue to follow your posts and be inspired by your strength. Hope all is well with you today ! ((hugs))) by the way, he's no longer friends with the girl now? really though, how is it partially her fault? i feel like he's placing blame on you, blame on her, when really, it all lies with him. if he hadn't let her sleep over there in the first place, all of this could've been avoided!!!!! unless she stormed in and tied herself to his bed and called you over and he was under some kind of mind control at that time and couldn't control his own actions, the fault lies in HIM! Okay, I'm sure she was a homewrecker who was up to no good as well but seriously, men need to start taking ownership for their own behaviors. Thanks, I have definitely been feeling better lately about my life and those in it lately, the hardest thing has been learning to trust again. I still can't handle any jokes on the subject. I feel like I question him on how he feels at times without meaning to. I talked to him when we were taking a drive the other day, just small talk he turns around and asks me if I am happy, if he makes me happy. It makes me feel guilty that it would seem like I am not happy to him but I told him that he makes me happy I see a bright future with him and I love his whole family, they have all taken me in and know the situation with my ex. It's not my love for this guy that holds me back, it is the crap he did to make me feel like I was stupid to put that much trust in him. I've even discussed having kids, he wants to soon, He told me that he likes the idea of Wyatt for a boy. He is one of a kind and I want to be good for him and get over this other DB like yesterday. Being able to talk with friends and people here on LS makes my mind feel so much clearer, so thanks to all of you!
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