Sleep deprived Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 (edited) I couldn`t sleep for the past two days because of something that seems so weird and new to me, its a weird feeling I get when I think about this person. Im 18 and been with over 6 women just for sex. And then I met this girl I knew that worked with me for about a year. We drove with her, me and my other friends to a party. later on that night we started hooking up. started with holding hands, making out and then ...... .after that happened her friends looked out for her and got her away from me then she was crying and she thought it would make her look like a slut because we slept together in the same night. But then I told them it wasn`t even like that. So they all left because they trusted me and she said she wanted to stay with me for the night so it was just me and her alone. we slept in my car and drove back in the morning very very awkard long drive back btw. She wanted to come back to my place but I pussied out on picking up on the signal and drove her to her friends. I slept at her friends too because I was tired but not with her. After I left she said good bye to me. Since I knew her from before one of her friends told me that she has always liked me and I didn`t know about it until a couple days ago. And I know longer work with her so I can`t go to her work other reasons why. With the other women I`ve been with I forgot about them the next day but this girl keeps coming up in my mind and I can`t sleep and I get this weird feeling in my chest when I thought about her and it went away eventually. EDIT:When we really started making out she also told me how she lost her virginity when she was 14 to a 19 yr old and he left her the next day and I didn`t want to make that mistake and I made a promise to her that I wouldn`t be an ******* towards her or just have sex with her and leave without talking to her about what we did when we were sober. I didn`t talk to her about it in the morning when we drove back to the city because it was really awkard and we didn`t really talk. The more and more I talked to her at the party I realized she was intelligent and no doubt very physically attractive Do I ask her if we can talk and I apologize to her about what I kinda pushed her into when we were drunk. I was really thinking about how I would like to get know her more if she was interested. Edited September 21, 2010 by Sleep deprived
james3232 Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Just ask her out on a date Y'up..........pick up the phone, dude.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 The girl probably needs therapy: She was raped at 14, very likely abused in some way well before that, and now a drunk guy is by his own account "pushing her into" (sex, basically) despite the instincts of her friends which were to "get (their friend) away (from you)"... Most stable and decent men don't want to invest very much of themselves in all of that chaos, particularly at this point in time. Consider where that leaves you...
xpaperxcutx Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 The girl probably needs therapy: She was raped at 14, very likely abused in some way well before that, and now a drunk guy is by his own account "pushing her into" (sex, basically) despite the instincts of her friends which were to "get (their friend) away (from you)"... Most stable and decent men don't want to invest very much of themselves in all of that chaos, particularly at this point in time. Consider where that leaves you... Don't throw around the word therapy so easily; we can also say the OP needs therapy because having slept with 6 women for sex could mean he's emtionally detached as a person... From what I read, the girl just sounds more emotionally dependent which compared to you is a world apart. OP, ask yourself this question, do you feel like you can emotionally invest yourself in a healthy relationship given your prior histories? This is something most people don't think about and is what sabotages their chances. If you're still in that stage to play and sleep around, being with this girl will only devastate her as a person. Afterall, isn't that why your friend kept her away from you? Be the better and do something that isn't out of selfish reasons and motives. If you're looking for sex, never seek within your own social circle.
Author Sleep deprived Posted September 22, 2010 Author Posted September 22, 2010 (edited) The girl probably needs therapy: She was raped at 14, very likely abused in some way well before that, and now a drunk guy is by his own account "pushing her into" (sex, basically) despite the instincts of her friends which were to "get (their friend) away (from you)"... Most stable and decent men don't want to invest very much of themselves in all of that chaos, particularly at this point in time. Consider where that leaves you... uh oh ....I guess I worded it wrong she wasn`t raped dude, and by pushing her into it was also worded wrong I meant I moved too fast with a girl I liked. I would say Im a stable and decent man either way. EDIT: I can see how unuseful this site is ........ Edited September 22, 2010 by Sleep deprived
SincereOnlineGuy Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 uh oh ....I guess I worded it wrong she wasn`t raped dude, and by pushing her into it was also worded wrong I meant I moved too fast with a girl I liked. I would say Im a stable and decent man either way. EDIT: I can see how unuseful this site is ........ Ahhhhhhhhhhh, now we see why you "pushed her into" sex... because you clearly don't know what constitutes "rape". You're her problem here, "dude". (unfortunately the only one who doesn't realize this is her)
Author Sleep deprived Posted September 23, 2010 Author Posted September 23, 2010 Ahhhhhhhhhhh, now we see why you "pushed her into" sex... because you clearly don't know what constitutes "rape". You're her problem here, "dude". (unfortunately the only one who doesn't realize this is her) lol Well im not gonna fight wit u over a computer or at all at that matter, so have a good day wit you .....
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