habs53 Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Your family keeps looking at her facebook and informs me of everything she does. This is really getting annoying, i have personally deleted my ex facebook acct. I have asked my family to do the same but they wont.
ohno89 Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 That's strange.....do your family care more about what she's doing than your welfare?! Not good......have you asked them why they do it or told them you don't wanna know and it upsets you?
Iselia Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Tell them to knock it the hell off. Express that it causes you pain/annoyance. If they don't knock it off, maybe you need to threaten to stop talking to them for a bit... And then follow through with the threat if they simply won't stop. I think, if they care about you, love you, and respect you, simply expressing your feeling to them should be enough.
Cee Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Tell them that they either unfriend your ex from Facebook or you will unfriend them. Either they can stalk your ex or they can stalk you. But they can't do both. Sheesh, if that was my family, I'd go on LC/NC until they stopped talking about her & started talking about me. It's weird how people treat Facebook as real news and not a weak picture of a person's life. My 67 year old mother goes bonkers any time I put a slightly negative status up. Great, mom is checking my Facebook.
Author habs53 Posted September 21, 2010 Author Posted September 21, 2010 Its almost like they are scared they are going to hurt her feeling or something. She is a runaway wife for god sake. Here is an example..... My niece phones and says hey, have you seen your ex new pics Me.... no, i have deleted her like i asked you to do Her, well she looked really good so i posted that she looked good Me... are you $#$# nuts. What the hell did you do that for Her.... well i dont know This crap is really getting to me
PegNosePete Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Tell them to knock it the hell off. Express that it causes you pain/annoyance. If they don't knock it off, maybe you need to threaten to stop talking to them for a bit... And then follow through with the threat if they simply won't stop. I think, if they care about you, love you, and respect you, simply expressing your feeling to them should be enough. This advice gets the PegNosePete stamp of approval! OP, do this, right now! Your family is being really disrespectful to you!!! If your niece calls again tell her you're going to hang up if she mentions your ex. And DO it.
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