Myowntwofeet Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Wow. It has been awhile since I have been here.... bashing threads everywhere:rolleyes: Nice to see nothing has changed. I was just reading yet again how it is not possible for the OW to know anything.... of course it isn't... but for the love of god .... will people stop assuming that "OW" all have the same rules. WE went out in public WE talked about his past, openly and honestly WE did not have some set rule ( can't call me when I am with my FAMILY) technology is an amazing thing and he was never more than a text or call away WE went out in public, openly You know, I really worry about some here.... over and over and over.... but yet scream how happy they are in their own situation. Anyone heard the phrase " thou who protest too much". It is places like this that really assist in the beliefs that marriage never really overcomes infidelity. I am just blown away at the time and repeat, and I do mean repeat posts of so many just jamming their stereotypical views down others throats. Amazed..... no recovery in that. None.
Mimolicious Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Wow. It has been awhile since I have been here.... bashing threads everywhere:rolleyes: Nice to see nothing has changed. I was just reading yet again how it is not possible for the OW to know anything.... of course it isn't... but for the love of god .... will people stop assuming that "OW" all have the same rules. WE went out in public WE talked about his past, openly and honestly WE did not have some set rule ( can't call me when I am with my FAMILY) technology is an amazing thing and he was never more than a text or call away WE went out in public, openly You know, I really worry about some here.... over and over and over.... but yet scream how happy they are in their own situation. Anyone heard the phrase " thou who protest too much". It is places like this that really assist in the beliefs that marriage never really overcomes infidelity. I am just blown away at the time and repeat, and I do mean repeat posts of so many just jamming their stereotypical views down others throats. Amazed..... no recovery in that. None. This applies to EVERYONE. People in affairs. People working on their M and those crying over last years bad investments yet are all equities on the market. The ones drinking and puffing a spliff too. It does, right? Or you are trying to single a group out?
bohogirl Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Wow. It has been awhile since I have been here.... bashing threads everywhere:rolleyes: Nice to see nothing has changed. I was just reading yet again how it is not possible for the OW to know anything.... of course it isn't... but for the love of god .... will people stop assuming that "OW" all have the same rules. WE went out in public WE talked about his past, openly and honestly WE did not have some set rule ( can't call me when I am with my FAMILY) technology is an amazing thing and he was never more than a text or call away WE went out in public, openly You know, I really worry about some here.... over and over and over.... but yet scream how happy they are in their own situation. Anyone heard the phrase " thou who protest too much". It is places like this that really assist in the beliefs that marriage never really overcomes infidelity. I am just blown away at the time and repeat, and I do mean repeat posts of so many just jamming their stereotypical views down others throats. Amazed..... no recovery in that. None. Hello I have a new hobby which I am finding very rewarding...posting on the LS Infidelity forums. I didn't have any of this info before my former relationship and now I am thirsty for knowledge. Weird eh? I do find some of the posters quite hysterical/evangelical about their beliefs and it is slightly disconcerting when they follow me all over the place. I mean why bother? I don't read their posts. Well, it is time to romance my man because I could not cope if he found someone else he would rather be with/think about/love...
donnamaybe Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Well, it is time to romance my man because I could not cope if he found someone else he would rather be with/think about/love...And here you have a prime example of a backhanded, sneaky swipe at the BS's on this forum. P.S. If the MM had RATHER have been with you, he would be.
Mimolicious Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Hello I have a new hobby which I am finding very rewarding...posting on the LS Infidelity forums. I didn't have any of this info before my former relationship and now I am thirsty for knowledge. Weird eh? I do find some of the posters quite hysterical/evangelical about their beliefs and it is slightly disconcerting when they follow me all over the place. I mean why bother? I don't read their posts. Well, it is time to romance my man because I could not cope if he found someone else he would rather be with/think about/love... Bozoclown more like it. Yeah, you go do that! Go romance your man because if you are not giving up the cookie and some sookie-sookie for posting all your gloating ish on an internet forum, then you kinda deserve it if he finds some other luving'. Isn't that how it goes? If you don't give, put out and scrub his feet you deserve to get cheated on, no? *Jamming* I loooove this song! Tamia-"Imagination" is on the radio! Whoohoo! All I need is a glass of Rose and Party one! Love this song. *taking my heels off and dancing*
herenow Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Hello I have a new hobby which I am finding very rewarding...posting on the LS Infidelity forums. I didn't have any of this info before my former relationship and now I am thirsty for knowledge. Weird eh? I do find some of the posters quite hysterical/evangelical about their beliefs and it is slightly disconcerting when they follow me all over the place. I mean why bother? I don't read their posts. Well, it is time to romance my man because I could not cope if he found someone else he would rather be with/think about/love... Oh honey, believe me, he ain't that great you can have him. I had him and I sent him right back to you. He begged to stay with me, but no way, he is all yours. Enjoy "your" man.
donnamaybe Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 giving up the cookie and some sookie-sookie I wonder how much of that I have to do for the new living room my man built for me...
Author Myowntwofeet Posted September 20, 2010 Author Posted September 20, 2010 This applies to EVERYONE. People in affairs. People working on their M and those crying over last years bad investments yet are all equities on the market. The ones drinking and puffing a spliff too. It does, right? Or you are trying to single a group out? Agreed... anyone who protest too much is suspect ( with perhaps the exception of those just learning of an A or experiencing a DDay). Doesn't change my original post though or the fact that after all this time, I find humor in the same ol' same ol'. Most are not here to learn, grow or challenge there thoughts. And no, I don't buy..... I am oh so happy...but here I am day in day out.... night in, night out... just waiting to post my point of view.. Just wash, rinse and repeat.
Owl Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Agreed... anyone who protest too much is suspect ( with perhaps the exception of those just learning of an A or experiencing a DDay). Doesn't change my original post though or the fact that after all this time, I find humor in the same ol' same ol'. Most are not here to learn, grow or challenge there thoughts. And no, I don't buy..... I am oh so happy...but here I am day in day out.... night in, night out... just waiting to post my point of view.. Just wash, rinse and repeat. So....stop holding it all in. Tell us how you really feel, MOTF. :) Some of us do come here to help, well after our own marriages are happily recovered. Or ended. Or we ended our relationship with OM/OW and moved on...or happily ended up with the relationship with MM/MW that we'd hoped for. People continuing to post here doesn't always indicate that somethings "wrong" with them, or in their lives. On the contrary...some people really do come here to help others. Other people....perhaps less so. So...how are things going on your side of the internet?
Dexter Morgan Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 And here you have a prime example of a backhanded, sneaky swipe at the BS's on this forum. exactly! good call DM.
wheelwright Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 exactly! good call DM. Dex, How is your love life? Think that's on topic, cos it's about getting over stuff/new hobbies?
SidLyon Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Wow. It has been awhile since I have been here.... bashing threads everywhere:rolleyes: Yep and here's yet another. Nice to see nothing has changed. Surely you didn't expect to find peace and love had taken over in affairlyland? I was just reading yet again how it is not possible for the OW to know anything.... of course it isn't... but for the love of god .... will people stop assuming that "OW" all have the same rules. WE went out in public WE talked about his past, openly and honestly WE did not have some set rule ( can't call me when I am with my FAMILY) technology is an amazing thing and he was never more than a text or call away Oh so he did speak to you candidly when he was with his wife? How could she not have known? WE went out in public, openly You said this twice but as I recall the BW in your situation didn't know so you must have been a secret. Who cares if random strangers and enablers see you out and about. You know, I really worry about some here.... over and over and over.... but yet scream how happy they are in their own situation. Where are all these happy screamers? Anyone heard the phrase " thou who protest too much". Yes. Did you say twice that you went out publicly? It is places like this that really assist in the beliefs that marriage never really overcomes infidelity. I am just blown away at the time and repeat, and I do mean repeat posts of so many just jamming their stereotypical views down others throats. Again did you repeat for our benefit that you went out publicly? Amazed..... no recovery in that. None. How on earth can you draw the conclusion that I or anyone else has/will not recover our marriage. Just because your MM continues to betray his wife and you assist in this betrayal. They are not all like yours and not all OW are like you. I find your attitude amazing too.
pureinheart Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Hi MOTF, I have a lot of hobbies...mainly home improvement projects, although it's getting a little old...it used to be cruising the thrift stores, but now I would be considered boarderline organized hoarder, so now am getting rid of stuff.... Yep, nothing changes at LS, that's for sure:eek:
bentnotbroken Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 :eek:Hell, I didn't read this thread before now because I thought it was really about hobbies. Goes to show what I know.
Sham WOW Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 :eek:Hell, I didn't read this thread before now because I thought it was really about hobbies. Goes to show what I know.Me too. I was wondering why it was on the OW/OM forum.
pureinheart Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Agreed... anyone who protest too much is suspect ( with perhaps the exception of those just learning of an A or experiencing a DDay). Doesn't change my original post though or the fact that after all this time, I find humor in the same ol' same ol'. Most are not here to learn, grow or challenge there thoughts. And no, I don't buy..... I am oh so happy...but here I am day in day out.... night in, night out... just waiting to post my point of view.. Just wash, rinse and repeat. Yep, right again:)
SidLyon Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 My hobby is exercising my conjugal rights And a very good hobby that is too. It's one I return to time and time again.
donnamaybe Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Dex, How is your love life? Think that's on topic, cos it's about getting over stuff/new hobbies?Did you read the opening post?
Sham WOW Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Hey, did anyone ever figure out what the OP's hobbies are? I missed it. 20 replies and I still haven't figured it out.
2sure Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 I've been organizing a group of people to rally our local gov't to ban retail stores from selling cats and dogs. My daughter and her friends are really into it. Ive been thinking about attending one of those classes offered at home improvement stores.
Dexter Morgan Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Dex, How is your love life? Think that's on topic, cos it's about getting over stuff/new hobbies? its just fine. no worries, no expectations, no sadness if it doesn't work out.
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