AlwaYs257 Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 First off here's the situation between me and my ex:http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t245761/ I was invited to this girl's party this saturday,been looking forward to it for like 2 weeks and yesterday I found out my ex is going to the same party :S,idk wether she's bringing her new guy with her,it's been a month and they still aint official Can anyone provide any advice on how to act and stuff druing that night? I believe it to be a window,kinda like fate dealing me a fair hand,what i do with it determines an outcome,I dont want her to think that im only going coz she's there,no,i asked weeks ago,she only got invited last night,like i said in my other thread,i genuinely care for this girl,and would'nt give up one her,it just kills me how she gave up on me,but I always believe that there's a time for us. People tell me her life's going down hill now,and she wants to sort it out. Can anyone give me any advice? On what to do that night,im going still,if she brings the guy idk how i'd handle things yet :/ Thanks
DonDraper Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 I would make it a point to say hello to her like she was an old friend that you have no problem with, leave it at that, and then enjoy the rest of the party as if she were not there. Maybe if you leave before they do, say goodbye to her, say it was good to see her, but leave it at that and move on. You want to give her the impression you are moving on, that you aren't filled in bitterness, and that you are coming from a position of strength--even if you aren't!
Don Ho Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 I, Don, agree with Don! LOL. Be cordial. Say little. Have class. Or think about just not going.
Ajax Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 I also thought about suggesting you not go, and if I were in your position I'd consider it. On the other hand, this is a party you've been looking forward to for a while, and she was just recently invited. Giving up on the party would be giving her further control of your life. Are you going with friends, another girl, or by yourself? Maybe you could find another girl to go with, even if it's just as friends. It would give you moral support and make you feel better. It might also make your ex wonder a little bit.
Author AlwaYs257 Posted September 20, 2010 Author Posted September 20, 2010 Nah im going with friends,i miss her dearly,and have recently stated on her fb that she wants to sort her life out,yet when my friend asked how she was,she said she was ok? Wth? And idk what to do if her new guy comes w her,her 'tool'. all i plan to do if we meeg that night is smile and give a wink,then get on w the night,i did not poan the night on her,im gunna have fun,i still love my ex,and i just wanna trigger some emotions/revelations if possible,anyone got any ideas? And i get that i should move on,but my minds set,and it feels like the meeting is a chance encounter,which an outcome will b decided by what happens during ghe events
Don Ho Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Yeah, take another girl and don't drink much.
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