jdmhunt Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 I posted this http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t244428/ when this all begun to learn situation please read. I think I was posted in the wrong section as I didnt get very much feedback so i figured I would try here. Here's an update on the situation from the link...To update. We just had a conversation about the situation this past week. She has told me that she wants to be involved with the baby and she's not going to leave it all to me. What a relief:) Then after that was said she went on to say that she loves me still very much she is just in no position right now to where she can be happy enough with herself to treat me well. So she needs to be single. She's seeing a therapist (def a good thing) and apparently he's made her realize a lot of the causes of the problems in her life. But anyways, after this convo things kind of went on the same, we weren't speaking barely at all and if we did it was very short conversations. Then all the sudden Thursday she invites my sister over to hang out with her and apparently was very open and actually talking about the situation with her being pregnant. Which is a huge step from where this situation was when i first posted. Then comes the past saturday through now, she has begun to text me randomly and also had a 2hr conversation on the phone last night about nothing. Just random conversation. Sometimes the texts are about needing something that I still have and then other times it's completely random conversations out of no where. She's being very kind to me again and not distant. She's telling me her situation with her sons dad and being very open with what she's doing in her life. I don't want to read into anything to much but was curious to if any of you have any input on what's going on in her head now. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
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