so.bad.at.this Posted September 20, 2010 Share Posted September 20, 2010 Hi, this may seem really simple but I'm really bad at figuring things out when it comes to guys and dating. I met a really nice co-worker on my new job a few weeks ago and then I traveled for work. We kept in touch a bit and he volunteered to introduce me to his buddy who could help me with something I needed when I was in town next. So the 3 of us met up recently and after an hour the buddy left because he had to be elsewhere. My co-worker and I continued talking in the bar for about 2.5 hours after that and it was really fun. He walked me back after that, gave me his jacket when I was cold and gave me a hug with a back rub at the end of the night. Next day he texted saying he had a great time. I don't know if he's interested or just being friendly. I think he's really cute and would love to explore this more. I'm traveling again but will return in a month to where he is. What do I do next to get him interested? He's definitely single and it's a long time since I met an awesome single and straight guy. Help! Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
refurb Posted September 20, 2010 Share Posted September 20, 2010 He's not interested. I have: 1. Given my jacket to a girl who was cold. 2. Hugged her. 3. Given her a back rub 4. Texted her and said I had a great time. all on the same night and I wasn't interested. (yes, I was being sarcastic) He's obviously interested. Tell him you had a good time as well and that you two should get together the next time you're in town. However, be prepared for an uphill climb. Not being available for a whole month isn't going to make things very easy in terms of starting a relationship. RF Link to post Share on other sites
Author so.bad.at.this Posted September 20, 2010 Author Share Posted September 20, 2010 Thanks Refurb, and you really had me going there! Link to post Share on other sites
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