misskay06 Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 This is my first long distance relationship and it's proving to be very tough. He lives 8 hours away from me so we only get to see each other every couple months. Lately he moved into a new place with a few of his single friends and has been partying every night until like 4 in the morning. Not to mention his communication with me is dwindling. Everytime I get impatient his excuse is, "baby are you not getting my texts"? The first few times I wrote it off as his phone is not working, but now it's gettin frustrating and what makes me wonder even more is why am I getting that one text but not the "rest of them". What am I supposed to think of this? Please help.
folieadeux Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Sounds to me like he's making excuses (even though a phone malfunction is possible - but highly unlikely as you've described) and moving on with his life. I would stop texting and call him and try to resolve things one way or the other.
Romance Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 It does happen sometimes with my bf and I that I am SERIOUSLY not getting his texts! I think it does make me look shady at times, but i do not know what happens with our service. I have ATT and he has Verizon, it is as though the two just totally do not connect with each other at times. How old is he/how old are you? My bf is in his early 20s so I do expect him to live it up and party but I think there needs to be a level of trust and a level of respect for you as his girlfriend. Have you attempted to discuss his partying with him? And if you two are totally exclusive etc all of that? I think this calls for a big phone call or skype session, I'd need to know just what was going on.
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