manchild Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 my birthday is next sunday you think she will say anything after 40 days NC then hers two weeks after that i wonder what going to happen and then if i should say anything to her if she does or doesnt say anything for mine. also, i will post my story if needed it is crazy i realy need some advice slash feelings of whats going to happen what people think?
DonDraper Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 (edited) I'm in the same boat, actually. We broke up in early June and I have been NC since August 8 or 9... and my birthday is coming up mid-October. I have a feeling if she breaks radio silence at any point, it will be there. But if she doesn't acknowledge my birthday, I can't help but feel like that is a sign she has totally checked out completely. I should also say that all my communication with her since June has been email and if she acknowledges it, it will be via email. So I have already planned to just send her a short email thanking her for the thought and leave at that, regardless of what else she says in the email. Don't know if that's a route you want to take or not. Edited September 20, 2010 by DonDraper added more to the story
USMCHokie Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Here's a bit of advice. Assume she won't contact you on your birthday. Enjoy your birthday. That is all.
Author manchild Posted September 20, 2010 Author Posted September 20, 2010 u need to read my story wow you wont believe what has transpired seriously since early june and i will be hurt but so mad if she doesnt out of pride or whatever i dont know what she will do
USMCHokie Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 u need to read my story... No I don't. The "story" is usually irrelevant BS, especially to a neutral third party... You're not together anymore...? That's all I need to know.
DonDraper Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Here's a bit of advice. Assume she won't contact you on your birthday. Enjoy your birthday. That is all. In my case, I would prefer that she didn't. But knowing that she might in the midst of my NC makes me want to have a contingency plan. Ha.
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