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I love my ex...a jerk!

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I miss my ex dearly. He was a jerk, but actually i love him still th all my heart despite of five months after breakup and the way he treated me when he dumped me. I actually don't think i will find someone that i will love this much, he had so many qualities of my perfect man, he was what i was looking for all my life. I actually don't want him to be in relationship with someone else, my heart is telling me he should be with me... I am crying every time when i think that it ended. Actually i'm crying now... I miss him, i'm thinking about him day and night, he was my everything though we had our ups and downs... I knew that this was my man and i was happy everyday that he was MINE... I am really depressed and nothing helps... I just hardly imagine my life without him in it.

 

I thought about family with him and having his kids and nice wedding that we had to have this September and it hurts so much... It hurts that he is saying that he moved on and is in a new relationship and his new girl is better than me because she understands him, meanwhile he is in my heart and i dont want anyone else and don't think that i will find somebody else, i liked so many things about him and was happy and felt safe. I actually feel that I can't live without him, I need him... I cant believe how fast he gave up on us, broke up over basicly nothing or just made up silly reasons and how he hurt me, while he was very special to me... Damn, it hurts...

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Although you acknowledge that he treated you badly, you seem to be putting him up on a bit of a pedestal right now.

 

Wait, I take that back. You are putting him up on a huge pedestal.

 

My concern is that when you feed those kind of thoughts, you only perpetuate them.

 

Maybe breaking the pattern may help.

 

Try to put your focus on other things, as much as possible. I realize that it's much more difficult than it sounds when you are so hurt. But just keep trying, when you can.

 

I hope things get better for you soon. Hugs.

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