justinewong Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 i know this girl who work with me in a part time job, at first i felt sorry for her because no one talks to her, so I came and talked to her, she look innocent and kind, so i thought it'll be alright, i even introduced her to my other friends, but as the friendship began to stabalise, she gets on my nerves. eg. - One time she took one of my friend's phone and when he ask for it back, she make this innocent and sad face, and everyone around was like "OMG! what did you do to her", i was one of the person, but i didn't know that she really took his phone, and I did, i was disgusted. - She nearly push me down the long stairs once, she make it as a joke, but it's not funny, it's dangerous, i can get seriously injured if i did fall. - she love to whine and cry over small stuff, like the boss shouts at her and she was like this to me and my friends, "I wanna go, come on lets leave" and then i told her that I'll get fired if i do, and then she was like the boss shouldn't shout at a girl like this, and then I thinking, 'hey i'm a girl too, big deal'. - she gets angry tat i didn't buy her a birthday present, why would i buy someone a present that i only talk to at work? I'm not even that close to her. when ever i turned my back she hits me with a paper cup. I get so pist at that, but i don't wanna express my anger in front of customers. - she get's angry that i hang out with my BF, and she gets angry that i don't remember her age (it's not my fault, she lied me that she is 15 before, so when she ask me the question I said, you're 15, she was then like, "Do you have issues, if you have a problem go see a doctor, I'm 17"). - When she sprang her ankle during the a trip to the mountain, me and some of my other friends carried her down the mountain, she didn't say thanks, all she did was whine and whine. I really want to leave her in the mountain. So yeah, I can't stand her, if this keep going I might need to resort in violence, i can't stand her bossy princess attitude. I hate her alot, she acts as if her life at work is so difficult, when we all do the same thing, like far out, I hate that snobby little rich brat.
Citizen Erased Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Resorting to violence will without a doubt end up with you losing your job and she can have you arrested. If you don't like her, either tell her so or just ignore her. Grow up.
TaraMaiden Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Feel better now? Don't worry. You're young. It's temporary. This will pass.
Author justinewong Posted September 19, 2010 Author Posted September 19, 2010 yeah I feel s much better now, just to need to get all that out of my chest and oh yeah, I can't really just ignore her, since she play those dangerojus joke (Push me of the stairs, throwing wet sand at me, etc)
Citizen Erased Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 yeah I feel s much better now, just to need to get all that out of my chest and oh yeah, I can't really just ignore her, since she play those dangerojus joke (Push me of the stairs, throwing wet sand at me, etc) Then don't go out with her. If she does anything at work, report her behaviour.
Leigh 87 Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 If a girl did un called for, unpleasant things to me, I would just ask her " why did you do that?" followed by telling her that " what you did was off, please stop". Perhaps the reason she does not have many friends at work, is due to her poor interpersonal skills. She may not realize that some of her behaviour is off colour, and actually does alienate her from the rest of you. Some people genuinlly do not know why they drive people away, in fact, a lot of these people actually want to make people feel good, yet they do the opposite. Perhaps she will surpise you and actually listen to your feedback in regards to her behaviour. Bottom line, is that you need to tell her to stop doing those things, if she continues, simply take action by reporting it to your boss. It may be the wake up call she needs. I have some annoying qualities, but man... I do not understand how people can actually DO those off things to people? I would feel like such an idiot doing the things you described her to do.. Pushing people down stairs as a joke? Throwing cups at you? How old is she, 3? And not saying thank you to people who carry you down a mountain is a sure fire way to have no friends. No one wants to be friends with a b*tch.
Author justinewong Posted September 20, 2010 Author Posted September 20, 2010 yeah I guess I should tell her, oh well next Saturday I have to see her again...
Leigh 87 Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Let us know what you say, and how she responds! It would be ncie of you if you genuinly did be like " look, I hope you actually consider what i say and USE IT to better yourself, if you eliminate some annoying habits you may get more friends and be happier" I try to be honest with people, so at least they have the option of using my feedback to change the bad things about themselves.
Author justinewong Posted September 20, 2010 Author Posted September 20, 2010 yeah sure i would post what happen at Saturday
LoveAintEverything Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 This is too easy, get her fired!!
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