newstart85 Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 I've been talking/dating this guy for 2 months and a half now. He lives 5 hours away and we are 25 years old. When he came to my town, I couldn't meet up with him because of an emergency and I let him know about him. He got really angry saying that I broke a promise and that he cant trust me. I asked him to give me another chance, and he said until he begins to fully trust me again, we're not in a relationship. We still talk everyday, but I'm the one who contacts him for the most part. I'm more affectionate in what I say to him, but hes not anymore and he says he cant until he trusts me again. He tells me to call him yet hes not the first to. I like him a lot and he knows that. He told me he likes me too. I don't know if he likes the attention that I give him and if thats whats making him to continue to talk to me. I'm usually the first to text/call. I asked him if I was bothering him and if he wanted space, in which he replied no and said dont worry. Two days ago I wanted to know how he really felt so I texted him. Me: am I your girlfriend? Him: why are you asking a weird question? Me: that's weird? Him: not until I trust you again.. After that, I didn't reply. He calls me 2 hours later and I tell him I'm going to bed because I'm tired. The next morning he texts me good morning and asks if I slept well. I kept it brief and didn't contact him afterwards and I didn't hear from him as well. The entire day today I didnt contact him but ended up doing so a few minutes ago asking him if he's doing well. He says,"yes and I havent heard from you in awhile. were you hurt/upset?" I said, "yes, a little bit, have a good evening then." he replies back, "sorry." and i didnt say anything afterwards. I was rejected, yes. But what I dont understand is, why he acted like he was interested in me as well by sending me songs, pictures a few days ago. And he keeps checking my blog like 2-3 times a day. Why?
USMCHokie Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 I was going to post a legitimate response to your question until you decided to post the same damn thread in three different forums. Fail.
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