sugarmomma Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 The m lasted 4 years been divorced a year and a half now. I've totally moved on however he still spends time at my dads auto body shop at times. I ran into him a couple times but have no desire to be friends or even cordial with him (he was cheating and had me thinking the demise of the m was my fault). He also texted me tonight wanting to know if he can go to my son's football game next friday. I probably won't be there and really don't care what he does. When things ended I asked him to stay away from my family and he doesn't respect that request obviously. I enjoyed his siblings and his fam when we were together. After the d, I cut all contact with them. What is he doing and am I being unreasonable asking for NC?? I won't respond to the text.
tornandmarried Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 The m lasted 4 years been divorced a year and a half now. I've totally moved on however he still spends time at my dads auto body shop at times. I ran into him a couple times but have no desire to be friends or even cordial with him (he was cheating and had me thinking the demise of the m was my fault). He also texted me tonight wanting to know if he can go to my son's football game next friday. I probably won't be there and really don't care what he does. When things ended I asked him to stay away from my family and he doesn't respect that request obviously. I enjoyed his siblings and his fam when we were together. After the d, I cut all contact with them. What is he doing and am I being unreasonable asking for NC?? I won't respond to the text. possibly narcsisstic...or guilty....or hes having trouble letting go trying to hold on to a friendship.....ignore his texts and hell proably start getting angry.....how was the relationship? any abuse? emotional or physical?
tornandmarried Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 and no its not unreasonable to ask for no contact....he should already be doing it on his own
Author sugarmomma Posted September 19, 2010 Author Posted September 19, 2010 possibly narcsisstic...or guilty....or hes having trouble letting go trying to hold on to a friendship.....ignore his texts and hell proably start getting angry.....how was the relationship? any abuse? emotional or physical? There was one incident of physical where he push me really hard in my chest and I had him arrested. In fact this is the act that led to the separation. I didn't have any proof that he was cheating then except for a woman calling my house asking for him. hmmmpf! I think its more guilt than anything. He may also be trying to test the waters to see if I'm lonely and horny for him. Uh, NO! I know I have no right to tell people where they can go but I really don't understand why he feels a need to hang around my family. I don't do that to him.
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