charmak Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 I started going to college last year and i met this girl through my friend who was on another course and started to like her more the more i talked to her over instant messenger and in person. I told my friend i was going to ask her out and he said go for it as he knew how much i liked her. So we started going out and everything seemed fine to me: talking like normal, acting the same (except holding hands & hugging more). And during the summer break her internet went down, she had no money for credit on her phone and she lost it too. And for the first time she came online near the end of August she just said she liked it better when we were friends. I was confused and upset as to why she wanted us to go back to being friends. And with me being myself i overthink things way too much so i was thinking all sorts of things and because i never told her how i really felt i sent her a message saying that i loved her and i wasnt sending it her to change her mind. What should i do? :/
Billie The Puppet Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 Like every other dumpee here, NC, work on yourself and move on.
USMCHokie Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 So we started going out and everything seemed fine to me: talking like normal, acting the same (except holding hands & hugging more). And during the summer break her internet went down, she had no money for credit on her phone and she lost it too. And for the first time she came online near the end of August she just said she liked it better when we were friends. I was confused and upset as to why she wanted us to go back to being friends. And with me being myself i overthink things way too much so i was thinking all sorts of things and because i never told her how i really felt i sent her a message saying that i loved her and i wasnt sending it her to change her mind. What should i do? :/ So did you ever ask her out on a real date...? It seems like you were just friends who held hands and hugged...that's not dating, bro... And for some reason I suspect that she did have her internet and her phone over the summer break and just didn't want to have to deal with you...it doesn't seem like she was ever interested in a relationship with you... You need to move on and leave her alone. If you can't be friends with her, then don't be anything to her. The "I love you" message probably freaked her the hell out...
Don Ho Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Alert, alert, alert! Bro, you never tell them how you feel or that you love them after they dump you!! NEVER! I suspect that you were all over her when you were seeing her and too into her. She lost interest. If she was really into you, she would have found you, internet or phone or not!! Chalk it up to experience, go read on the internet about dating do's and dont's and don't repeat the same mistakes. Good luck.
Author charmak Posted September 19, 2010 Author Posted September 19, 2010 As i said above i do overthink things which i am trying to stop doing :/ and i over look things that are simple to see. I probably should have seen these things but i guess that is just me :/.
Rooooob Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Like every other dumpee here, NC, work on yourself and move on. This is the best advice you could on the matter. Just cut her off...it may be hard, but its necessarily, and it allows you to move on, too.
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