tinybear5 Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 Ran into ex the other night...we made out and he told me we could talk about getting back together. I was drunk..he didn't seem to me, but the next morning he told me he was and he just told me what I wanted to hear . That's all. And that the things he said and the kissing meant nothing . Case of "drunking heart speaks a sober soul?"
Sheppy99 Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 wow, tinybear. That guy sounds like a real creep to do that to you. I don't know why you'd ever want to be with someone that immature and that selfish to do something so hurtful to you. You're now on day 1 of your recovery phase all over again because of those actions. #1 start doing NC right away and honestly he probably will come calling again by the sounds of it cause he likes having you twisted around his finger. Be strong and ignore it. I mean even if he was willing to reconcile with you I don't know if I'd believe it after that act, I think he'd just hurt you again cause he obviously doesn't care about your feelings at all. #2 write a list of all the negatives that you've ever experienced because of him during before and after the relationship and write a list of things that you don't like about him. Drinks too much? Parties too much? Doens't respect you enough? Be as ruthless as possible and read this list anytime you feel a moment of weakness coming. You can do so much better then a guy who would do that to you drunk and then crush you the next morning like that. I don't care how drunk I am, I know what I'm doing and I've gotten back together with ex's before royally drunk off my ass and the next day it was what I wanted cause even drunk I know what I want and he knew what he wanted that night too. Just some physical activity from you. He lied to you and he knew what he was doing. Dump the garbage and move on.
Don Ho Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 Ran into ex the other night...we made out and he told me we could talk about getting back together. I was drunk..he didn't seem to me, but the next morning he told me he was and he just told me what I wanted to hear . That's all. And that the things he said and the kissing meant nothing . Case of "drunking heart speaks a sober soul?" No..... just drunk guy acting like a drunk guy. He's a prick. Move on.
Author tinybear5 Posted September 18, 2010 Author Posted September 18, 2010 its funny b/c in last 2 and half weeks this has been goin on he wont even kiss me when he's sober ...but i run into him drunk and its a different story..
Don Ho Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 its funny b/c in last 2 and half weeks this has been goin on he wont even kiss me when he's sober ...but i run into him drunk and its a different story.. Sorry tinybear, but that should tell you everything. Do not let him use you like that.
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