confuzed1 Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 My ex-girlfriend said the dreaded words a couple months back..."let's be great friends." Of course, I obviouslr read too much into those words thinking that she would want to get back together. Of course, I did a NO! NO! She calledone day and invited me to stay the weekend with her during the Labor Day weekend. We slept in the same bad, but no physical contact. I decided that being friends couldn't be any more difficult than that. So...since that weekend, our contact has been very limited. She called this past Thursday night and wanted to know if I could bring the dogs by for her to see because she missed them. I told her that I had plans hanging with some friends their anyway during the weekend (LDR)...that I would stop by Friday evening on my way. While there she played with dogs in the front yard and I got a text. I was texting back and forth until she finally said, "What are you doing? Who are you texting?" She had that look in the eye and the nervousness in the voice. "I simply replied, "Nothing. Nobody." Then I got more texts and answered them. She said "Who is it you're texting." I told her she no longer had that right in knowing...and she stomped into the house saying, "Guess not! I'm going in the house." WTF? and she wants to be friends??????? ONLY????
leftfield Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 Yes you made her jealous. But don't read too much into that, she probably just wants to think that she still has a hold on you, it's a power thing. Unless she tells you she wants to be anything more than friends, then yes, that's all she wants. But she got her nose put out by her own ego telling her that you've got some other girl texting you, even if you haven't. Just take it easy and don't go giving in to her, or asking her to get back together, or even telling her who the texts were from. Maybe you've got her thinking that's she's made a mistake in breaking up with you, but DO NOT assume this.
Author confuzed1 Posted September 18, 2010 Author Posted September 18, 2010 Yes you made her jealous. But don't read too much into that, she probably just wants to think that she still has a hold on you, it's a power thing. Unless she tells you she wants to be anything more than friends, then yes, that's all she wants. But she got her nose put out by her own ego telling her that you've got some other girl texting you, even if you haven't. Just take it easy and don't go giving in to her, or asking her to get back together, or even telling her who the texts were from. Maybe you've got her thinking that's she's made a mistake in breaking up with you, but DO NOT assume this. She sent me a text about 10 minutes ago asking when I was heading back out of town. The biggie here" She said, "If there is something you don't want me to know, don't be afraid to go ahead and say it." I'm not even responding. She's playing like a puppet, and by hanging with my buddies, that helps move on. I'm not going to be her safety net.
leftfield Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 She sent me a text about 10 minutes ago asking when I was heading back out of town. The biggie here" She said, "If there is something you don't want me to know, don't be afraid to go ahead and say it." I'm not even responding. She's playing like a puppet, and by hanging with my buddies, that helps move on. I'm not going to be her safety net. Good man, you spiked her interest that's all. Don't play her games. Something you don't want her to know? Ha! She's dying to find out if you're seeing someone, don't give her the satisfaction, it's nothing to do with her.
Derekcolns Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 (edited) Yes of course you made her jealous but always be careful at this stage if you don't want to loose her. Edited September 20, 2010 by Derekcolns
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