eternal.denied84 Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 I decided few months back that never in my life I would get in touch with this girl again. Today, I have been forced to write this to you, I am going through an excruciating pain which has made me numb enough to think about anything else. I want you to see- that the dirty deed you do to others can screw them for the rest of their life. Out of the blue, your past friend ping me on fb, I was reluctant enough not to talk to save me from any pain but then the guy was just asking whereabouts so i responded..which i am heartfully regretting now. I get stunned everytime people tell me about you..this is incredible to see how much you can hide & fake. My past relationship with you has become a curse for the rest of my life. you need a dead body to overcome the pain when someone tells you that your ex gf was caught red handed with a guy in hotel near "AAAA" and my uncle was a commissioner in "AAAA" that time- he helped to release both of them. I truly detest you for all the blunt lies you told me- I truly detest myself for believing everything you said to me blindly. I truly detest myself for being in a relationship with the most cheap girl on this earth. I have evolved over the years seeing how someone can fool you around for a year. I must have been a brain dead to believe things you said to me in and out of relationship. Here the DAMAGE is all done and I am back on my feet after going through a horrible phase but for future- for the sake of Humanity-NEVER EVER LIE ABOUT THE THINGS WHICH MAY HURT OTHERS FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIFE. During the course you will do more damage to yourself than to anyone else. Imagine a person thinking "god-she is the most pathetic human being I have ever met and I would rather prefer going blind than to see her ever again". This is exactly what I feel for you now. PS: This mail was neither intended to insult you nor to let you know how much I detest you. Off the record nothing about you matters to me anymore..I am way past. It's just that when somebody shatters the past and show me the truth layer after layer, it makes me feel how pathetically I was being used-I just go emotional, frustrated. irritated and my heart gets filled with all the hatred in this world-all for myself.
wjg23g Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 "Off the record nothing about you matters to me anymore..I am way past." Nope- don't send this letter. You sound very angry at her. Take some deep breaths. This letter isn't going to get you anywhere or make you feel better
leftfield Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 The above poster is right. Everything you have said before contradicts the statement "Off the record nothing about you matters to me anymore". Do you really want to tell your ex that you HATE YOURSELF because of HER? If she is truly the heartless b*tch that you describe then she will probably just laugh off this diatribe and ignore it. How would you feel about that? It's good that you posted on here rather than just send it. Make sure you don't!
Hersheys Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 I decided few months back that never in my life I would get in touch with this girl again. Today, I have been forced to write this to you, I am going through an excruciating pain which has made me numb enough to think about anything else. I want you to see- that the dirty deed you do to others can screw them for the rest of their life. Out of the blue, your past friend ping me on fb, I was reluctant enough not to talk to save me from any pain but then the guy was just asking whereabouts so i responded..which i am heartfully regretting now. I get stunned everytime people tell me about you..this is incredible to see how much you can hide & fake. My past relationship with you has become a curse for the rest of my life. you need a dead body to overcome the pain when someone tells you that your ex gf was caught red handed with a guy in hotel near "AAAA" and my uncle was a commissioner in "AAAA" that time- he helped to release both of them. I truly detest you for all the blunt lies you told me- I truly detest myself for believing everything you said to me blindly. I truly detest myself for being in a relationship with the most cheap girl on this earth. I have evolved over the years seeing how someone can fool you around for a year. I must have been a brain dead to believe things you said to me in and out of relationship. Here the DAMAGE is all done and I am back on my feet after going through a horrible phase but for future- for the sake of Humanity-NEVER EVER LIE ABOUT THE THINGS WHICH MAY HURT OTHERS FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIFE. During the course you will do more damage to yourself than to anyone else. Imagine a person thinking "god-she is the most pathetic human being I have ever met and I would rather prefer going blind than to see her ever again". This is exactly what I feel for you now. PS: This mail was neither intended to insult you nor to let you know how much I detest you. Off the record nothing about you matters to me anymore..I am way past. It's just that when somebody shatters the past and show me the truth layer after layer, it makes me feel how pathetically I was being used-I just go emotional, frustrated. irritated and my heart gets filled with all the hatred in this world-all for myself. Don't send the letter! I bolded the parts that'd probably make your ex cringe. If I were your ex gf I'd get a huge ego boost and validation with this letter. It would come off as angry and bitter and so totally not over her. It would sound a little obvious that you're still on her mind. Make a hard copy of this letter instead and keep it under your bed or somewhere else inside your room then read it every time you get weak and want to contact her.
mickleb Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 Don't even think about sending it: It will make her feel justified for cheating on you. (There is no justification for cheating but cheaters like to find some wherever they can.) You are, in no way, over her. You are stuck in anger. It's better than depression but you're not out of the woods, yet. Read the link in my signature and get busy truly moving on. Take care. x
HopeLove Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 You are obviously not over her. You're still hurt and angry so saying that nothing about hers matters is a lie and you said she shouldn't lie, so be coherent. Also why do you really want to send this letter/email? What are you hoping/waiting for? Do you want to hurt her and that she feels the same pain as you? Forget it! Dumpees always suffer more than dumpers. I've been on both sides and it's not the same. Do you want her to become a better person? Than change the tone of your email otherwise she probably won't even finish reading. My advice. Don't send it and try to really move on.
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