somuchforthat Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 (edited) Why does my ex keep saying things like remember when we did this n that and went here and there....and remember this song.....uhhhhhhh i got sent mms messages with the new clothes she bought..... Edited September 18, 2010 by somuchforthat
lvixen Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 Why does my ex keep saying things like remember when we did this n that and went here and there....and remember this song.....uhhhhhhh i got sent mms messages with the new clothes she bought..... Because they might still have feelings for you, or are stringing you along, or even perhaps they think you're a good friend and are simply remembering good times with you. Were you the one who was broken up with? Do you still have feelings for your ex? Need more info!
Author somuchforthat Posted September 18, 2010 Author Posted September 18, 2010 she dumped me because i wouldn't convert to her religion. I was very upset about all of this and i really wondered why she even hit on me to begin with me and lead me into the relationship if the religion part was her true motive. There is more to this ofcourse but posting will take a year tor read the full story She says that initially she didn't realize how important her beliefs were im not sure if i buy that....I never mocked/judged/criticized or did anything like that about her beliefs. i accepted her for who she was and i thought that poeple had the common decency to return such a attitude but i geuss i was way wrong. I try and avoid speaking to her bc it just brings back the emotions and all that jazz and i dont want to endure that again. But sometimes i give and talk to her online or via sms. A few months back we meet up in person and went downtown and sat in the park and walked around and held hands...and later when we talked online she said that it felt right but it wasn't right (to the hand holding) We broke up early 2009. I do miss her and i am trying to get over her ( hence the avoiding communication).
Lost Fish Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 any insights? Uhh yeah... You broke up in early 2009??? Why are you still dealing with her. Do you realize you've wasted almost 2 years of your life? I hope you've dated others in the meantime. I also sense this relationship was mainly online... Get out more, meet people in real life. Practice talking to women and soon you'll be able to move past this girl.
PegNosePete Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Why does my ex keep saying things like remember when we did this n that and went here and there....and remember this song.....uhhhhhhh i got sent mms messages with the new clothes she bought..... The more pertinent questions are, why do you listen? Why do you reply?
Author somuchforthat Posted September 21, 2010 Author Posted September 21, 2010 Uhh yeah... You broke up in early 2009??? Why are you still dealing with her. Do you realize you've wasted almost 2 years of your life? I hope you've dated others in the meantime. I also sense this relationship was mainly online... Get out more, meet people in real life. Practice talking to women and soon you'll be able to move past this girl. no it was a real relationship, not in cyberspace. We knew each other before we started dating (we had a common group of friends) which we would hang out with. Iv been on a few dates here and there but nothing really exciting. There was nothing wrong w the other people just not my type.. I dont have many places to meet poeple. I work retail and i cant really hit on my customers.... My freinds that i have i am not interesting in one bit on a romantic scale. I am pretty social when i get the chance ( i go out a lot downtown w freinds when we have the chance to meet) but its not that often! Or we just hand around Starbucks. In fact i go to starbucks a lot! I work out to stay healthy/energetic i love winter seasons( snowshowing/hiking) snowboarding! I try and keep busy but idk i feel lonely i think thats why i might cave in and talk to her about once every 3-4 months. I am pretty reserved to new poeple but once i am comfortable i make people laugh. and it would talk a lot of nerve for me to talk to someone randomly and a lot of the time ill think oh shes too pretty/ hot she has to have a bf ( if i don't see a ring) I suck big time at reading body language...i am oblivious!
TaraMaiden Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 The more pertinent questions are, why do you listen? Why do you reply? I second this.... You need to simply ignore everything, completely, totally, entirely. Ignore. IG-Nore. All of it. Read link in my sig. That will give you succinct, precise, complete directions.
LoveAintEverything Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 She either has feelings for you still or she is being a straight up bitch
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