p0w3r Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 We broke up today, mainly because she showed lots of disrespected and in many ways cheated on me(except sexually). We had a talk a few hours ago to end things and I let my emotions got the best of me and got a bit angry at her and just said what I wanted to say really fast and a bit upset and and left. Now she wrote me a letter on facebook: To you This is the first time I'm writing something like this, and its probably the last time too. everyone says im drunk tonight but, hey, Im not drunk..，look,，I can still type, right？Its just that my head feels so heavy right now。 So。this is the only thing I've written to you while I'm drunk。 Actually I predicted a ending like this a long time ago，But it came too early and too fast,。so fast and so early I couldn't even predict it。 I don't blame you, really. If two people kept a standoff like this going on and on，one person has to make a decision, right？so，I don't blame you, really. I just hate myself，and how I squandered and wasted the two opportunities you gave me。 The 18th of September。8 more days. Just 8 more days until our 5 month anniversary.。 But now, there perhaps isn't really any point or meaning to any of that stuff. I'm really thankful that you appeared in my life，and how you took me to so many places and let me experience so many different views and locations. Thank you。 However，the current state of Me，can't afford to go anywhere。 because，there are memories that exist everywhere。 So full of them，the memories that we shared。 Actually, just then in our final talk, I didn't say it to you。Because its not really necessary anymore ， You had already spoken your final words. So there wasn't any point. You said, time to breakup。 However，lastly，i wanted to say。。 Sorry，I don't want to split up， Sorry，I can't let this go。 But, you probably don't really care anymore. Yeah, you don't really care anymore。 No matter how manys to say I've been wrong。no matter how many to say I want you back 。 You don't really care anymore。 So, just leave it. Whether to say that I've never ever hated you Or whether to say I am still thinking of you None of this has any point or meaning anymore. You've already set off on a journey thats distant from me. Just like you said, from now onwards, everyone goes on their own separate paths. However. (My name), Thank you. I don't know how long its gonna take, to have me forget about you, to forget about the times we've been together. Thank you, for having been part of my life. Only its so unfortunate, I didn't wait until 5 months came up. I didn't wait for one year to come up. Thank you. I love you. Goodbye. Goodbye. Anyone help me out on this? a bit depressed right now. its 2 am and friends are all either asleep or busy. How do I analyse this and what should I do? After the breakup talk, I simply texted her, "have a good life." She texted me a couple of texts like:"how can I have a good life without you" but i ignored them (as advised by LS'ers) then she went on facebook and starting talking to me. I first ignored but then she kept on talking with random emoticons/smileys, and I replied, "?" she replied with more emoticons/smileys and I wrote, "I'm sorry, but I thought we already finished our talk?" And wrote :"what do you want? that scarf I still owe you?" "I will give it back soon." and she wrote a bunch of stuff about her being drunk etc etc and I ignored her. Please help. Did I do the right thing? Or should I have never replied at all.
shayan Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 She still likes you it's obvious, but she won't be a different person if you go back to her. She'll be the exact same girl who cheated on you and was disrespectful I'd say ignore and move on. Let her feel the pain, and mourn and then she'll get over it. Don't waste your time doubting yourself over a drunk letter. Good luck
Author p0w3r Posted September 17, 2010 Author Posted September 17, 2010 She still likes you it's obvious, but she won't be a different person if you go back to her. She'll be the exact same girl who cheated on you and was disrespectful I'd say ignore and move on. Let her feel the pain, and mourn and then she'll get over it. Don't waste your time doubting yourself over a drunk letter. Good luck Thanks. What made you think she still likes me? I acted a bit angry and annoyed when I broke up with her. Now she is an immature drama queen. Do you think she'd have been happy to get that reaction out of me and be sneakily laughing on the inside? (her eyes were watery and red when I told her its over in person) if that helps.
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