nobmagnet Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 :p Hello all. My coping stratagy. 1. I bought lots of wine/Gin 2. I cried lots 3. I found Loveshack. 4. I met some amazing people. 5. I met some bl**dy annoying ones. 6. I started to see some positives from the mess. 7. I started to invest in me with the weekends i got off when Lowly worm had the kids. 8. Created "sh*t of the year" at new year when i was alone but had me loveshack chums. 9. Try to make as many memories as i can. If i think.......ummmm that looks fun.............i do it. 10. With loveshack, my family and mates I am a different person. I am no longer broken, sad, scared and reliant on the person that was significant. I am independant, happy and loving life. I have learnt much from the amazing people on here and am trying to implement their advice where it fits. There IS a world out there away from your horrible pain. It takes time and investment emotionally. Please dont think this pain will live with you forever because it wont with the correct help. Medication if thats needed, loveshack, family and yourself. None of us are BAD people so dont forget that. Nobby xxxx:) P.S this took about 10 months for me so might be shorter or longer for you lot. One thing i have learnt is that we all take different lengths of time:love:
jthorne Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 :bunny:Nobby! I'm so glad you are back! (Your last thread was AWESOME!)
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