Steve11 Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 After I texted asking for the drink, she said we'd deciede I time last week. I didn't bother texting and left it at that. She texted me last Sunday asking about the drink. So, I set the time & place. Just a tad confused. I'm not going to ask to get back together with her, but do you think she still has feelings? Because most would of cut ties by now. I might add that I didn't text her back straight away about the drinks, she texted back 4 hours later saying "I don't mind if you don't want to go for drinks but I'd quite like my stuff back this week" the stuff I've got of hers is face wipes, nightie etc stuff she doesn't need back urgently.
PegNosePete Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 do you think she still has feelings? "I'd quite like my stuff back this week" No. (10 chars needed)
Author Steve11 Posted September 16, 2010 Author Posted September 16, 2010 I thought she replied about getting her stuff back because i didn't reply straight away. She's quite a handfull.
DustySaltus Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 If she wanted you back she never would've broke up with you in the first place. You're the one who asked for the drink not her. She's got all the power right now. You have to take that power back by focusing on your needs OUTSIDE of the relationship....Give her back her things and cut the contact. Please read the links in my signature.
Lizzie60 Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 this could be dangerous for YOU.. I saw my ex after we split.. we even had sex, on several occasions.. we have no feelings for each other anymore.. (more like a deep friendship).. He called me last week.. after about 2 years..
Author Steve11 Posted September 16, 2010 Author Posted September 16, 2010 She asked for drinks first & I said no. Yes, I shouldn't of then asked her. I'm gonna meet and give her stuff back. Non mention anything about us, then leave it.
Author Steve11 Posted September 16, 2010 Author Posted September 16, 2010 What does really cut me up is thinking of her being with another man. But heyho. I suppose if were meant to be, we'll be.
pandagirl Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 this could be dangerous for YOU.. I saw my ex after we split.. we even had sex, on several occasions.. we have no feelings for each other anymore.. (more like a deep friendship).. He called me last week.. after about 2 years.. Two years! What did he have to say for himself!
Recommended Posts