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Maybe ex bf is getting me to break NC?

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My ex boyfriend has put me thru hell the past these 2 months. Tossing our relationship out the window like it never happened after being with him for 5 years. Going hot and cold with me and yet still haven't "made his decision" in regards to "us". I finally gave him a ultimatum as I told him I cannot be his friend, he has been continously stringing me along and hurting my feelings, and that whether he left me for another girl or not. I cannot and NO LONGER give a f**k what he thinks because I am not trying to be his "psychologist" and "his mother" when he wants to be confused. I still feel its another girl that is why hes so accepting to brush us under the table. Anyhow, he went NC on me when I left him a voicemail telling him GOODBYE. And I went NC on him. He finally text me a week later saying "I miss you" which I did not respond.

 

It has been 2 weeks since I went NC on him. I got a text message from him today saying: "Hey, I just wanted to see how your doing. These couple days have been extremely hard for me and I am having trouble sleeping"

 

Why does this guy still contact me after I went NC. Didn't he not get the message when I never responded back to his "I miss you" text. Why would he had the nerve to text me "I just wanted to see how you are doing, its been so hard for me, cant sleep"

 

Umm, did this guy forget that its been 2 months since the breakup and my feelings are still hurt by all this. What the hell, (umm just wanted to see how you are doing?) does he expect me to be happy after all this? WHYYYY on earth does he think I would want to be concern about him having a hard time with his life? Why would he be contacting me after NC for 2 weeks? Then again, IF IF IF he had another girl, I wonder why he is "soo stressed" wouldn't you think he would be happy that "our" relationship is over in general since he broke up with me 2 months ago.

 

Since the breakup, He has been saying there is no other girl and that he just needs time to think and get his life together. Now I am not sure if I believe him at all but.. does he want me to care about him again is that why he text me that? Or am I reading to much to his message. Is this a sign he may want me back? I will continue to keep NC.

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It sounds like NC would be best for you. You're still so angry with him right now. Is that how you have managed to keep the NC going? His text to you seems like it's just about his needs, he's struggling, he can't sleep. Why is that your problem? Why should you jump to help ease him so he can sleep. He didn't care that he caused you hurt and no sleep. If he is seeing someone else, he needs to just move on. My ex is only too happy to have NC so he can pursue his someone else. He cut off contact a week ago without a we're through discussion at all. Just stoppped contacting me and I find out he's been seeing someone else while we're together. He just seems like he's trying to feel you out to see if he can get you to be there for him again. Stick to NC until you know what you want.

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