EnigmasMuse Posted September 15, 2010 Posted September 15, 2010 I have a great concern for a friend of mine. To make a long story short, she just got divorced from a 12 year marriage (they have 3 kids together), where her husband cheated on her, plus other issues they had. She got involved with another guy not long after the divorce, said she was head over heels for him although he didn't really return the love, because 5 months into the realtionship he runs off and marries his baby's mama! Didn't even tell my friend until she found out by seeing pictures of the little cermony on FB! This was about 3 weeks ago this happened. Now, there is this other guy who is interested in her, HOWEVER, a friend of mine reconized this new guy that likes her, told her about his past history, that he is a stalker, has had numerous restraining orders against him. Is very jealous when he gets involved with someone, and had to relocate to another job because of past stalking at the job he was at! She texts me earlier and says she is going out with him to a club Friday night! She knows about his past history and is still willing to go out with him knowing he may get jealous and if they get serious, it will not be good! WHY is she getting involved with this losers? Its like she is a maganet for these types of people.
JackJack Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 Sounds like she is giving off the "I'm desperate and needy vibe." Its not uncommon for some people who have been in not so good relationships before, to get into those kinds of relationships again. Until she realizes, and truly believes how worthy she is, and gets some self respect and self esteem, this pattern will more than likely continue.
blair08 Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 Just be there for her the best you can. Sounds like she may need you. Chances are this wont go to well with this guy, hopefully she will learn this before she gets in to deep.
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