Author nayeli_forever Posted September 17, 2010 Author Posted September 17, 2010 You never answered your age difference. I'm realy curious about that. So I wonder if they stopped having sex 6 years ago because his wife had other interests and found someone herself. I wonder if her friends tell her she should have gotten rid of her husband years ago. Who knows? then that would make ending the M that much more easier? Age difference of 12 years.
someday Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 Actually, you sound hard and cold to me. Like you've shut off your ability to 'feel' for others. Ah, well, we all deal with betryal in different ways. I hope all end up happy in your situation.
greengoddess Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 hmmm I really thought you were younger because of your nonchalant attitude of the wifes feelings and the dismissal of the adult childrens feelings.
Author nayeli_forever Posted September 17, 2010 Author Posted September 17, 2010 When my parents divorced, I had to learn to accept the situation because it wasn't going to change. Mom and Dad moved onto new partners and although I wasn't thrilled with the idea, my father esp, made it clear to me that he was happy with his new life and that I needed to see that. The new 'step-parents' are not my choice but I support my parents regardless.
whichwayisup Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 When my parents divorced, I had to learn to accept the situation because it wasn't going to change. Mom and Dad moved onto new partners and although I wasn't thrilled with the idea, my father esp, made it clear to me that he was happy with his new life and that I needed to see that. The new 'step-parents' are not my choice but I support my parents regardless. How old were you when your parents divorced? Just because you had to learn, doesn't mean others have to. Most don't want to tear apart their families for their own selfish needs, blow apart a kids security and stability, change the family dynamic forever. Why do you think so many spouses cheat and NEVER plan on divoring? Sure selfish reasons, but number one is - They don't want to lose their family.
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