this is getting to be too much

[tinybear5]

Is it too late to go NC with him? it will be 3 weeks this sunday that we have been broken apart. he keeps commenting on my online away messages with "?" or "what does that mean?" ... i started going out at night, which i never did before and he told me "thats making you look really unattractive"..he got mad the other night when i said i was thiinking about going out to dinner with a male friend.."he responnded via text with a wink, and then said "SO not a conversation i ever wanna have"........im extreamly confused. He obvisously doesnt want a relationship anymore; thats what he told me. But im so sick of waking up every morning with this pit in my stomach. and Magicly this pit goes away the second he initiats contact...weather it be asking me about my online away messages or whatever it is . It's getting to be like a cycle now ... what the heck am i supose to do?? does anybody think that going into full NC might have some benifit at this point?

[fabio10]

Tinybear this guy is being a selfish pr#*k , I know exactly what you mean about the pit in your tummy and how it goes away the min you have some form of contact with him, I had the same with my girl and then it would come back as NC would go on !

 

I think love for someone who dosent love you back is similar to a junkie trying to go clean, we were on a high with our Exs and now that high is no more and we emotionaly suffer withdrawal symptoms hence for brief periods when we are in contact we feel better as we are getting a small fix but would a junkie ever become clean if he/she had little fixes now and then hell NO !

 

And nor will we become better while we hold on to false hope and try keep in contact while we feel this way, we must let go and to do that we have to be selfish for the next while LIVE your life and dont pick up that dial or instant message for that little fix cause as you've seen that bad feeling will come back after !

[tinybear5]

i just dont understand any of this. I have always had the upperhand in the relationship, it was always him crying after me. He always said he loved me more than i loved him.......and now its such a role reversal -_____-