Billie The Puppet Posted September 15, 2010 Posted September 15, 2010 Fu*king men! I hate them!! Don't judge us based on the lying cheating scumbags from the bad seeds. Why is it they say all women want a bad guy and us good guys will always come in last. Then we see comments like this. Urg! we need a perfect balance.
Author 9Lives Posted September 15, 2010 Author Posted September 15, 2010 Oh girl, you sound exactly like me! I was with my ex for 8 years and he was my everything, my world and he threw me away like a bag of trash for some young skank. You are NOT ALONE!! That Hair Club For Men bit really cracked me up. Wouldn't it be nice to rip that rug right off his head!? I hear you! What you're feeling is anger and that is totally normal. You are not an awful person, by any means. You've been hurt and betrayed and if you didn't feel the way you feel, there would be something seriously wrong with you. It's only been a week. Give yourself time to heal from this mess. I broke up with my ex 4 months ago and I was healing quite nicely until I found out (like 3 weeks ago) that he has a new girlfriend and he cheated on me with her. That sent me back to square one with the grieving process. I know this doesn't make sense right now, but be thankful you know right now, what a piece of sh*t your ex is. You know he's a cheating bastard and use your anger to move on from him. I'm using mine to move on from my ex. Before I found out about the cheating, I was thinking he was still someone I wanted to be with and I was pining for him. Not anymore! Now I know what a dirtbag he is and I want nothing to do with him ever again. It will get easier. Give yourself time. If you need to, go talk to a therapist. It helps. I'm seeing one and it has helped me a lot. Good luck:) Hey Shannon and Ouch..you guys got me cracking up. Hair Club for Men ...LMAO Shannon, my heart is bleeding for you to have to let go after 8 years to someone you cared alot about. Thank you so much for responding to my post. Im trying to accept my break up too. Im like you...it is like he is mines..but he isnt mine. I try to tell myself, if he loved me, he would be right here now. I hear people say, he still cares about you...so fking what! I dont want his caring. I just want to forget him so bad. It has been terrible. He just has hurt me like no other. Ouch, I understand your pain as well. For me, Im doing really good. I just have this crap going on right now. I dont go nowhere near facebook at all. There is this party I wanted to attend this weekend that I am skipping cause he might be there. He says it is over and so Im not trying to get anywhere near him so he can further rip my heart into pieces. Im staying away from him all together. I told you guys he text me last week...FOR WHAT!?!?!?! This may have something to do with my thoughts being all jacked up. I go to sleep fine...no problem. But out the blue I wake up for no reason and then BAM! He is on my mind like white on rice! When I get up in the morning, Im fine as well. Its just the middle of the night. I might smoke something tonight...lol Im serious. I dont like this at all.
ShannonMI Posted September 15, 2010 Posted September 15, 2010 Don't judge us based on the lying cheating scumbags from the bad seeds. Why is it they say all women want a bad guy and us good guys will always come in last. Then we see comments like this. Urg! we need a perfect balance. I'm sorry Billie! I don't hate all men! I just hate the scumbags. I should have been more clear about that. I don't want a bad guy, I want a good guy. Any girl that says she wants a bad guy is crazy. I guess the bad guys are fun until they hurt you (and they always do). Being hurt by a bad guy makes you appreciate the good guys so much more.
benB Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 I woke up early again today, I wish I could sleep in like I used to, sigh.
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