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OK, My girlfriend left me about 2 months ago. When she left she wouldn't answer my texts or phone calls. Finally after continous begging she began to respond to my texts and calls. Fast forward 2 months, we are not together but we do talk occasionally and its pretty pleasant. Shes still pretty adamant about not comming back though.

 

So I've been on this emotional roller coaster during all of this. Today I decided to go ahead and accept its over. I shredded all of her pictures and cards. I cried while doing that to. Man that hurt. But after I did it I felt releived and I can now focus on me.

 

 

So this evening I had a old female friend stop by the house to bring me some food. Nothing more. After she arrives I get a text from my ex stating "I now know we cant be friends, I'm sorry"

 

I'm like WTF??? I didnt answer her text.But why would she send something like that? Its obvious she didnt want me back.

 

I'm convenced she wants me to sit in the house and cry over her..Well I'm not crying no more. She sent that text to hurt me again. But its not going to work. I'm moving on now.

 

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Text her back with: "Ok", or nothing at all. Pretend you're totally fine with it. Don't contact her. You begged her for some contact which was a bad, bad move. She's definitely much more over you then you are of her. I know it sucks but you have to move on. Get as far away as you can from a girl who can't even treat you like an adult.

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I totally agree..I'm not going to contact her again..Since I'm starting to see alittle more clearer now. She really wasn't all that anyway. But you live and learn I guess.

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Hi, she doesn´t want you to sit in the house and cry her a river... she knows that´s the case... because otherwise she could send you photos of her with another man and you wouldn´t feel nothing more than a passing pang of anger for to have once loved someone totally undeserving...

 

As things are, and as they say in my country, she still move the rug under your chair... be strong on your desire not to let you hurt more...

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