aeronlightning Posted September 14, 2010 Posted September 14, 2010 So I dated a guy for a few months late last year, and before I moved away for 2 months we broke up. While apart, we didn't speak and he ended up getting another girlfriend. They broke up as soon as I moved back. Once that happened, we didn't start dating but were together all the time, and definitely felt like we were. So for the past 9 months, we've been only sleeping with each other and not talking to anyone else. Well I left again for 3 weeks, came back, and he seemed extremely happy that I was back. However this past weekend, we finally talked about our feelings, and I ended up deciding that it was in my best interest not to talk to him anymore, despite him saying that we should still be "best friends" and having animals together. I also found out that he's been seeing someone on the side. Well only a day had gone by after his knowing that I didn't want to speak to him anymore, he texted me and asked me "How I was doing that day" I waited 2 hours and decided to just give a simple answer and not act interested in talking to him by saying "I'm great. Just tired. He wrote back instantly, and said he was tired also. Being as tired as I was, wrote back 10-15 minutes later and said something about getting a lot of things done, but he never replied. I guess I'm just wondering why he's still trying to talk to me. Can someone give me some insight?
Don Ho Posted September 15, 2010 Posted September 15, 2010 So you let him string you along and have sex with you for 9 months while he was having sex with another woman? Wow. And now you wonder why he is texting you? Because he knows you're a powder puff! Why on earth would you respond to him? He's with another woman. You told him NC. Then when he initiates, you break NC and text back. Geez. Get a grip Sista. Delete his numbers, email and so on. Do not say or tell him anything. Your ACTIONS should show him that you are done being used and you have moved on.
Trovador Posted September 15, 2010 Posted September 15, 2010 So this isn´t even a real break up... He wants to talk to you because he likes having someone at his beck and call... and rest sure that people are interested in him... ha ha isn´t that what we all want...
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