Maralise Posted February 23, 2004 Posted February 23, 2004 I been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. Long time right? Well anyways, yesterday I was looking through my boyfriends text messages on his cell phone and I came to a lot of messages saying, " I love you Babe, I miss you..." and all this other stuff. When I carefully looked at who was sending these messages, it was my cousin. The cousin that you will always see me with. The cousin that was unseparable from me. She had been having a relationship with him since September. In other words, he was cheating on me for the past 5 months. I love that guy very much. How could they do such a thing to me??? I never knew this pain existed until now. It hurts so much. But you know what's the worst part? That I got with him at the age of 12 and he was 17! Now i'm 15 years old and he's 20! I trusted him and I grew with him. I just wish I can wake up from this nightmare! But I can't! It's reality! I just want this pain to go away!!!!!!!!!
GiveAndTake Posted February 23, 2004 Posted February 23, 2004 First of all I am so sorry for your pain but you need to know that is ABSOLUTELY WILL GO AWAY EVENTUALLY! It will feel like it won't, but it will. That I can promise. I don't say this only because you are 15. Yes, it goes away faster when you are young. Just trust that the pain will go away. Are you at all religious? What I would do is pray. Pray often. Ask for strength and guidance. Just keep praying through the pain. It will help. And keep posting updates here. It will be good for you to talk through this no matter what happens. I wish you the best.
Tony T Posted February 23, 2004 Posted February 23, 2004 The pain will go away. It just takes time. You have a real nice cousin there, too!!! You started seeing this guy when you were very young (you still are) and he was in his formation years. You were ill equipped to pay enough attention to know of his poor principles and morals. Luckily, you now know what a scumbag he is. You will meet and date many guys before you find Mr. Right. Meanwhile, in between feeling what you need to feel to get over this butthole, celebrate that you found out what he was all about in time. Lots of women marry turkies like him and end up having two or three kids before they find out what kind of disloyal cheaters they are. You're one of the lucky ones. I'm so sorry this happened to you. It shouldn't happen to anybody but it does.
look forward Posted February 23, 2004 Posted February 23, 2004 I am so sorry for your pain Maralise I really feel for you.. but the pain will subside in time you have to believe in that and thank your lucky stars that this happened now instead of if you were married with kids with this scumbag... as for your cousin that is discusting behaviour and has doubled your pain..at least you know in future who you can trust it clearly isn't her.. be strong keep posting.. keep yourself busy hang out with friends, stay home and chill watch dvd's anything that will keep your mind of this dreadful situation it wont make it go away but it will help a bit.. keep posting as that helps to Love and hugs to you babe XXX
Mr X Posted February 23, 2004 Posted February 23, 2004 Its a double edged sword. It sucks he cheated on you, but you DID say this: >>Well anyways, yesterday I was looking through my boyfriends text messages on his cell phone<< Wouldn't that be <GASP> snooping?? I'm sorry, stuff like this gets me going, ever since my incident.
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