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I found out my boyfriend is registered on this pornsite and he has all these favorites and he favorited other girls profiles and the works..... I know some people may not say this is cheating its just porn, but it really breaks my heart... now, I have access to his account, I can get on it and do whatever I want to it, BUT I HAVENT................yet. So, I'm horrible at making decisions myself and I could really use some help!!

 

What should I do?

 

-Not say anything and just "spy" on him I guess you would say

-Change something on his account like delete his "favorites" or change his email address

-Delete his account all together

-ETC

 

I could really use some opinions and I really appreciate the help! :(:(:(

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I have, but not about this site. Ive caught him looking at porn countless times before I've begged him to stop over and over again. I want us to work out... but I dont think It's going too.

 

Thank you for your advice

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When you say a porn site, favourites and profiles... do you mean (a) a porn site that is a traditional porn site with pictures/videos of porn stars that people simply look at? (b) an interactive porn site with webcams, strip shows, and chatrooms? © a dating/hookup site that people would use to meet others, either in person or one-on-one webcam/chat sessions?

 

If it's (a) or (b), I would say you have to decide if you can put up with him doing it. He obviously isn't going to change. If it is a deal-breaker for you, then dump him. He's already had a lot of chances, don't bother giving him yet another.

 

If it's © then get rid of him immediately.

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its more like choice B...

 

I will talk to him, try to give him a chance because I am so in love with him, but.... I will probably break up with him....

 

Thank you very very much

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