Banega100 Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 i hate to be the one to point this out dude, but your fears about her not caring for you anymore are a moot point. She's moved on, she no longer has feelings for you. Hence, she ended the relationship. Why give a sht about her reaction, she isnt giving you a seconds thought, other than attempting to keep you on a leash. Just start working out and don't give a sht man. She doesnt. Start ignoring her and youl begin to reclaim your life from her.
Am4Real Posted October 18, 2010 Posted October 18, 2010 Guess we both need to get to the point of indifference, but then maybe I or she wont care anymore - that seems sad. Bob, Are you hanging tight and following good advice and not responding to her? Am4Real
kaycstamper Posted October 18, 2010 Posted October 18, 2010 I know it's mostly guys on here but let me give you my opinion from a woman. The moment someone laid a hand on me, I'd be so outta there! And there would never be another chance. Serious red flag that any woman would be an idiot to ignore. About the no contact, if you read on marriagebuilders.com, no contact has a purpose in some instances to protect one's love when someone else is destroying it. It also serves the added purpose of letting the other person know what life would be like without you, and keeping them from cake-eating. It does what other actions fail to accomplish. It seems you both have some maturing to do and are neither one ready to be in a relationship with anyone. That aside, you have already realized what you failed to at first, that you should have protected your relationship with her and guarded it, helping her to feel secure in your love. Whether or not you'll get another chance to do that with her or not remains to be seen. But most of us are guilty of taking our loved one for granted, at least when we are young, at some point or another. Life is a lesson, it seems you are learning a lot lately.
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