Iloveyou4ever Posted September 14, 2010 Posted September 14, 2010 well guys im really trying to get over my ex but i cant! 4 years i was with her i go out with friends have the time of my life but at the end of the day she comes into mind...but im really like idk because its been like 4 months that we have been broken up, and two week after we broke up she starts dating this guy and they're "in love" the guy broke her heart 2 times already he wanted his ex but she took him back but i remember she had told me her greatest fear is being alone..and they have sexual intercourse almost everyday! and hardcore from what she told me..( yes i know she told me i stopped her from telling me any more) and just recently seh told me she missed being with me and everytime we hang out, she brings up our past and starts saying great memories and fun times, my friends seen us together adn said that we acted like if we were together he said he still sees the chemistry between us, all of my friends believe one day were gonna go back together, is it that shes just hiding how she really feels? because i really doubt their in love...you cant just **** the one you really love all hardcore, i believe its just sexual attraction that they have and their confusing it with love but idk what do you guys think
bighearted Posted September 14, 2010 Posted September 14, 2010 Sounds like a freaking BITCH! Why would you want someone who says that **** to you?! Forget that girl.
benB Posted September 14, 2010 Posted September 14, 2010 yeah bro, why would you even want to talk to someone who did that to you
ohno89 Posted September 14, 2010 Posted September 14, 2010 I agree. I was in a similar situation to you - I wasn't with him for 4 years, just half that time but it was a very intense relationship. However, he spazzed out, cheated on me which was something I thought he'd never do and he's now with this girl, it's been about 4 months for me to. In my case, even the thought of getting back with him, allowing him to spend time with me, anything like that is completely out of question. Why do you want to be with someone like that? I know everything is always so much easier said than done - I'm still pretty cut up about what happened - but what you're doing is not helping you. Not only has she left you, started dating someone else 2 weeks after but she still gets to spend time with you as if the break up never happened. You're still giving her that wonderful person that she once had...but she still broke up with. And now she gets to have the best of both worlds with you and her new thing. I know you must have a lot of questions in your head; is it really love? is it just about the sex? will she ever want me back? But you really need to try your best to STOP caring about these things. It won't change what she did to you and it's not worth putting yourself through this. I know exactly what you mean about trying to have fun and spending time with your friends but at the end of the day, it's still them that's on your mind but...the suffering's only going to take longer to heal the more you hold onto her. Screw her, she doesn't deserve you. If you insist on having her in your life, you need time away from her to heal and then maybe stay friends or whatever..hopefully by that time though, it won't even be that big a deal to you whether she's in your life or not. Hang in there x
Author Iloveyou4ever Posted September 15, 2010 Author Posted September 15, 2010 you guys are right ahh it just sucks though it hurts but i dont want someone like that :/ i need to snap out of it, but i see her at work and its hard which is why i think icant move on because i keep seeing her and my dumbass juts falls into her traps :/ and im not about to leave such a graet job for her...i need to go no contact with her at all.
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