ShannonMI Posted September 14, 2010 Posted September 14, 2010 None of us can speak for him with any authority or undeniable understanding of his mindset…but it is a well known and studied behavioral trait of those that feel deprived or dispossessed often inflict similar actions/feelings on others as a means to counter their lessened feeling of worth. Again, it has nothing to do with you. I really doubt he sat back and thought if I do “X” then Shannon will be gone….he did it because it’s the behavior he understands and it works within his insecurities. It’s not a logical issue – it’s a psychological behavior. It's so weird to me. It should be the exact opposite. What do you mean by deprived? I deprived him of something? Or his ex gf's deprived him of something and he is taking it out on me. How fu*ked up. And I thought I was the one that needed a shrink. It sounds like he does.
benB Posted September 14, 2010 Posted September 14, 2010 Thank you again, Fabio. Yea I have to be honest, it would give me a bit of satistaction if my ex did try to come back to me. I would love to say "Well now, you've discovered the grass isn't that much greenier?" "Isn't that too bad a**hole!" Then I would tell him to f*ck off. I fantasize about this quite often. It would be the ultimate pay back. Hahahahaha! He's a bastard and I would love to have the upper hand in this. Right now, he's got the upper hand. I want him to feel some of the pain I've been feeling. I do this as well! But I doubt she will ever do that. She seems happy without me in her life . But I wish she could feel the pain I feel everyday. Someone you love just leaving you high and dry and moving on so quickly. I would never take her back, I would just like the chance to put her on my shoes for once.
Billie The Puppet Posted September 14, 2010 Posted September 14, 2010 Thank you again, Fabio. Yea I have to be honest, it would give me a bit of satistaction if my ex did try to come back to me. I would love to say "Well now, you've discovered the grass isn't that much greenier?" "Isn't that too bad a**hole!" Then I would tell him to f*ck off. I fantasize about this quite often. It would be the ultimate pay back. Hahahahaha! He's a bastard and I would love to have the upper hand in this. Right now, he's got the upper hand. I want him to feel some of the pain I've been feeling. Well if the girl is a groupie perhaps he is feeling the pain in ways of STD's.
ShannonMI Posted September 15, 2010 Posted September 15, 2010 Well if the girl is a groupie perhaps he is feeling the pain in ways of STD's. We can only hope hahahahaha:D The pain of herpes would be nice. Big, festering sores is what he deserves.
fabio10 Posted September 15, 2010 Posted September 15, 2010 LOL Shannon I replied to you on that thread in coping
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