whichwayisup Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 WWIU - can you elaborate. WHAT is he lying about? And why? I'm not 100% okay with the guy, and I like Mombot and hope he turns out to be genuine, but to just attempt to undermine him like that is unhelpful at best. About his wife, his marriage, what truly "is" going on. He's wishy-washy about details, not making her feel secure and safe. She is doubting him, rightfully so. I will go back and pull some quotes that she has said about him if you'd like.
Silly_Girl Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 About his wife, his marriage, what truly "is" going on. He's wishy-washy about details, not making her feel secure and safe. She is doubting him, rightfully so. I will go back and pull some quotes that she has said about him if you'd like. No, don't worry about the quotes. Sweeping statements are difficult to deal with, so I was curious if there were any specific things you believe he's lied about.
carhill Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 Not knowing the OP's circumstances, this thread helped me understand a bit better and perhaps underscores what WWIU is getting at. Since the OP hasn't returned, I'll repeat that IMO the MM's purchase of and occupancy within a separate and unique domicile would go a long way to showing a path to divorce in an obvious and public way. If he's still living with his wife, presuming his wide travels for business and pleasure, a sign that he *can* afford to live separately if he so chose, tells me that he's not interested in 'completing' his divorce anytime soon, giving the long period he has apparently been pursuing 'the end' of his marriage. In my male opinion, he's full of it and his eyes are remarkably brown as a result.
whichwayisup Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 Not knowing the OP's circumstances, this thread helped me understand a bit better and perhaps underscores what WWIU is getting at. Since the OP hasn't returned, I'll repeat that IMO the MM's purchase of and occupancy within a separate and unique domicile would go a long way to showing a path to divorce in an obvious and public way. If he's still living with his wife, presuming his wide travels for business and pleasure, a sign that he *can* afford to live separately if he so chose, tells me that he's not interested in 'completing' his divorce anytime soon, giving the long period he has apparently been pursuing 'the end' of his marriage. In my male opinion, he's full of it and his eyes are remarkably brown as a result. X2. Agree with you completely and thanks for linking that thread too. The man wants an affair, things are working for him as they are now, why would he want to rock the boat and change it all up?
Ellin Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 Not knowing the OP's circumstances, this thread helped me understand a bit better and perhaps underscores what WWIU is getting at. Since the OP hasn't returned, I'll repeat that IMO the MM's purchase of and occupancy within a separate and unique domicile would go a long way to showing a path to divorce in an obvious and public way. If he's still living with his wife, presuming his wide travels for business and pleasure, a sign that he *can* afford to live separately if he so chose, tells me that he's not interested in 'completing' his divorce anytime soon, giving the long period he has apparently been pursuing 'the end' of his marriage. In my male opinion, he's full of it and his eyes are remarkably brown as a result. Have I missed something? Isn't he separated any more?
Mimolicious Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 Hone- Corvette and flushing down cash so the W gets less... Classic! Sounds like a very late mid-life crisis to me. Watch out 20y/o's in WA!!! Such a charmer he is.
carhill Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 Have I missed something? Isn't he separated any more? I have no idea. The OP should be able to access their divorce/separation docket online, just like I (and any other citizen) can access ours online, or, at worst, at the courthouse. If there's nothing legal, as in a court of law, it's just carbon dioxide. I hope the OP will return with more pertinent facts of her case. Happy to change my opinion
Mimolicious Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 Well, I'd think Mombot cares what her daughter thinks and her daughter cares what Mombot is going through and has her best interest at heart. Her daughter knows more about the situation than anyone on LS and Mombot knows all about her daughter - contrary to the starngers in the virtual world, where anyone can masquerade as anything and not necessarily having genuine intentions. But you're right in one point - Mombot keeps posting and asking. She only knows why but maybe it's because so much doubt has been planted in her mind here on LS and she needs to deal with that somehow. I really can't understand why her posts keep getting ripped apart like that. In reality, her daughter could know a whole lot less than the strangers in the virtual world. How many here can actually tell their children half the ish of the stuff they have the audacity to post here? Just wondering... Does her daughter post here?
Owl Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 Have I missed something? Isn't he separated any more? That's really been the question all along tho. When Mombot attempted to contact his wife to let her know that he was seeing Mombot and make sure that he was seperated, the wife's only response was "I don't believe you"...and that was the extent of that 'verification'. If they WERE seperated, you would have expected an "I don't care" response. What she got sounds for more to me like an angry/hurt response from a wife who's in denial that her physically-located-somewhere-else-due-to-work husband maybe cheating on her. Hence the belief from a lot of posters that there is no mutually agreed upon seperation-pending-divorce. More likely this is an affair on his part, with lies and deception as needed to maintain things the way that they are.
fooled once Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 Well, I'd think Mombot cares what her daughter thinks and her daughter cares what Mombot is going through and has her best interest at heart. Her daughter knows more about the situation than anyone on LS and Mombot knows all about her daughter - contrary to the starngers in the virtual world, where anyone can masquerade as anything and not necessarily having genuine intentions. But you're right in one point - Mombot keeps posting and asking. She only knows why but maybe it's because so much doubt has been planted in her mind here on LS and she needs to deal with that somehow. I really can't understand why her posts keep getting ripped apart like that. glad to see, as usual, you rip apart whatever I say some things never change. I have no idea. The OP should be able to access their divorce/separation docket online, just like I (and any other citizen) can access ours online, or, at worst, at the courthouse. If there's nothing legal, as in a court of law, it's just carbon dioxide. I hope the OP will return with more pertinent facts of her case. Happy to change my opinion Actually carhill, not every state has it online. My state doesn't. I also don't know about just going to a courthouse and asking for the info; I personally have never felt the need or desire to go find out about anyone's past, including my current H's. But, if I were unsure of what was being told to me, then you are darn tootin I would go find out. Last I remember, the MM told her he was going to separate and after Mombot emailed the wife, and didn't get the reaction possibly she wanted, then she determined the wife must be okay with everything. Then again, my recollection is Mombot wasn't clear in what she was asking the wife, such as "Do you know your H is having an affair with me? Here is proof..... Do you mind?". Ultimately, Mombot chooses to post on this site and that is her right. She can take the opinions of some, none or everyone into her decisions.
Ellin Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 glad to see, as usual, you rip apart whatever I say some things never change. . I think it's an overreaction, unless you're joking, Fooled.
Ellin Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 That's really been the question all along tho. When Mombot attempted to contact his wife to let her know that he was seeing Mombot and make sure that he was seperated, the wife's only response was "I don't believe you"...and that was the extent of that 'verification'. If they WERE seperated, you would have expected an "I don't care" response. What she got sounds for more to me like an angry/hurt response from a wife who's in denial that her physically-located-somewhere-else-due-to-work husband maybe cheating on her. Hence the belief from a lot of posters that there is no mutually agreed upon seperation-pending-divorce. More likely this is an affair on his part, with lies and deception as needed to maintain things the way that they are. So far I have been under impression that his separation is out of question. Now even this is not certain. Right.
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